I found out I was pregnant two weeks ago. I haven't really had any positive thoughts, or excitement. I'm just constantly uneasy. Is that normal?
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Lauren ❤·
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@swanson.jacquelyn I contemplated abortion and adoption but ultimately decided I couldn't do either. I've always wanted kids though. So as angry as I was at myself and the world that this happened to me, I knew neither was an option. But those are decisions you have to make for yourself and make sure you're really the one making it because if it comes from an outside source you could regret it in the long run. I've had friends who got abortions and were fine and I've had friends who were not. I have a friend who even gave her daughter to her mom to raise and signed her rights away and for her it was the right decision.
Jacquelyn Swanson·
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@laurenray93 did you ever contemplate other options for your child?
Lauren ❤·
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I had a similar experience to @courtneyraelochamy mine was totally unplanned and I felt like a failure to myself because I let it happen. My mood started lightening up around week 12 and finally has been getting better day by day here in my 3rd trimester. My SO's uncle told me I was starting to look brighter and happier and I definitely feel that way
Courtney Lochamy 🌙·
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@swanson.jacquelyn, mine did by like week 12. Mine was unplanned and I was scared to tell my family. But after telling them all and letting myself realize it isn't the end of the world I finally eased up
Jacquelyn Swanson·
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@courtneyraelochamy when does it like subside? or does it?
Courtney Lochamy 🌙·
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Yes.