I wanted to ask an honest question. What made you mamas of 2 or more children decide to go from one child to two. Were you worried about not marking enough money? Or struggling? How did you not worry yourself silly? I'm a mother of one and secretly wanting another but am afraid to have one. I spoil my daughter like crazy and give her everything she wants pretty much. She has her very own room with her own furniture. I'm afraid if I have another child it won't allow her to have everything but would make me happy.
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What made me decide? My husband wanted one more. Was I worried about not making enough money or struggling? No.... then we found out my baby had a heart condition... all of the prenatal appointments cost a lot of money. I was on bed rest but still was getting paid... but not my commission, which was my money maker. We had to cut back major. I did worry myself crazy, but then I just stopped worrying and figured that it would work itself out. We still spoil my oldest, we just don't do as much for ourselves like we used to (expensive clothes, shoes, purses). You will figure it out :)
To all BBers...
I just wanted to let you all know I am thankful that you guys look out for one another, always give your opinion, and try to make people feel better when they are feeling down...you women are amazing...have a blessed night/day...☺️
I need to ask someone this have you literally regret having a child with someone. I love my daughter with all my heart but I really regret ever being with her dad.
I'm afraid my baby girl might be getting too chubby... I love her rolls, but should I worry?
Next child
Speaking to my partner tonight about having our next child i ideally don't want another for a few years yet but he turned around and said only on one condition you have a c section ( i got a 3rd degree tear with Oliver) I actually don't want a c section but he said he won't have another child otherwise am I being unfair ? I loved my birth with Oliver i loved that feeling him being placed on me, but he said if I don't have a c section the next baby won't be with him :(
I wanted my son to have someone to grow up with.