So, for a month or however long I won't be seeing my boyfriend because we got in an argument today…
So, for a month or however long I won't be seeing my boyfriend because we got in an argument today over the fact that his family who lives right next door said they saw him bring a female over yesterday. So I asked him who was over and why because he didn't bother to tell me who was over to begin with. He then said "huh?" Like really. So I caps locked my message and asked him who was over at his house. He told me and I told him "apparently according to a little bird, there was a female over."
So apparently I assumed and believed what I was told by this family member and I don't trust him at all so he won't be talking to or seeing me for a month, maybe or for however long it takes for him to feel like I can trust him.
The worst part about this is I asked my friends to ask this family member for more details and she said she wasn't going to say anything more.
He says no female was over, his family says there was. I want to believe him but why would his family say such things? Im at a complete loss and I'm literally lost in my own thoughts because he won't even talk to me about any of this.
Cece Minshall·
I couldnt be with someone I dont trust, And honestly his family would have no reason to lie about that.. Does his family like you?
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He's guilty af 🙄
Unless his family has some grudge against you, there would be no point in lying to you. And if he wasn't guilty of something I think he would be pissed at his relative for lying to you, not get mad at you for verifying with him.
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Also, is he like, grounding you? That's what it seems like he's trying to do by not seeing you for a month. Like.. The hell??
Caitlin·
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@mommaxbearx, @damiensmommy1117, he has certain family that doesn't like me but I'm confused on why she brought it up but told my friends not to tell me and told them she wasn't going to say anything more about it... like what? I do trust him but we aren't technically together and I don't know how to message him and ask him to talk to me about this and figure shit out... like I don't even know what to do at this point...
Caitlin·
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@damiensmommy1117, he's pissed at me because he thinks I believe them over him.. they aren't even blood related, just related by marriage... I don't know if he's guilty or not...
Cece Minshall·
@caityyy_lynnn Yeah, thats weird. I wish I could help better :/ I would just message him asking if you could take face to face that way theres no miscomunication :)
Caitlin·
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@mommaxbearx, I would but I feel like if I bug him tonight, it would just make it worse... or he will read it and ignore it... like I don't know what to do because I don't want to fight...
Cece Minshall·
@caityyy_lynnn Give it till tomorrow that way he has some time to calm down and you have some time to think :) and then ask him? The worse he can say is no doll, and if he does well its his loss because you seem like a great girl!
Caitlin·
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@mommaxbearx, I just know him... this all sucks because none of this is my fault but I'm being treated as such...