I'm at my wits end with my oldest. Not only did she pee on her bedroom floor and not tell my husband and me about it she locked one of our cats in a cupboard. The only explanation being that the cat was being mean to her. Unfortunately I know that my daughter restrains the cat so she can't get away and pushes her face into their fur. I'm at a loss on what to do anymore.
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@star_wars_freak_2010, oh man. You guys already spank her so that does nothing but gives her immunity to it😂
Time out does nothing.
And she's misbehaving at school too!
I'm sure it's because of the baby, and attention she is or feels like she isn't getting
I wouldn't know what to do either though! That's tough
@torrey_, it wouldn't shock me if it was because of the baby. We try to play with her but don't always have the chance to because other things end up coming first. Sometimes it's her own fault she doesn't get to play because she'll refuse to do homework so she'll sit at the table until she decides to do it or she'll land herself an early bedtime for talking back. She has a thing for arguing and just not listening in general.
Unfortunately this is not the first time she's done something violent. She's punched kids at school, kicked them, spat on them, just a number of things. I'm just at a loss at what to do because nothing we do phases her. Whenever we try to turn the scenario around (like for today. How would you like it if you were shoved in a small confined area and not sure when you would get out?) she tells us she doesn't care and it wouldn't bother her. That's constantly her answer. We've tried praising good behavior, it doesn't work. We've tried timeouts, sparking, taking stuff away, nothing like that has worked on her and we're running out of options.
@star_wars_freak_2010, why is she misbehaving ? I think she's just acting out
@moromama, she's in a time out chair right now. She thought she'd be funny and spin herself around to look at us and after she didn't listen to her father to turn back around she got smacked. She appears to be behaving now but it'll only last so long
@star_wars_freak_2010 oh my goodness .. time out chair ... butt woopen lol
@moromama, at the age of 2 I can understand it. They're still learning. Mines 6 and knows better. She gets told not to shove her face into the cats fur, she's been yelled at, spanked, the cats have even attacked her when she does it. I'm about ready to go to my last resort and rehome the cats because she can't respect them.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
My sweet baby girl gained her angel wings this morning. She was my best friend, my true love my everything. She was so happy and beautiful, I'm struggling to say good bye. Sleep tight princess, mummy and daddy love you very very much ❤️
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@torrey_, she kinda acted out before the baby but not this severely. I'm ready to rip my hair out lol