This might seem silly to some of you, but this is something I need to get off my chest and have a…
This might seem silly to some of you, but this is something I need to get off my chest and have a conversation about. So my daughter will be turning one soon and sometimes I think she hates me. I feel like I am the only person who she doesn't want to come to if someone else is holding her, when I change her diaper she freaks out (although she occasionally does that to my husband and mother). She was just recent sick and had a high temp, and she was literally all over me because of course she wasn't feeling good and I loved every second of it. When she was an infant I made it a point to not rock her to settle I wanted her to learn to fall asleep on her own and sometimes I regret that. As if she knew that as her mother I would just lay her in her crib to fall asleep. (Mind you we never let her cry it out because she never did cry and always slept through the might since she was 6 weeks). Thoughts, opinions, am I going crazy? Lol
Buddhist Mama·
My older daughters are like that too and I never held them as babies. But my son.I held.more and my youngest I hold constantly and they like NEEDS me most of the time
Jennifer·
Мама дочки-младенца
She definately is a daddy's girl but I wish she was more clingy to me. Some would beg to differ but not I.
danielle@barton·
I completely understand. I've been suffering from ppd and wish I had started antidepressants sooner because my son calms down when my husband holds him and my MIL but most times he freaks out when I hold him.
Pam W·
Мама двоих (3 года, 4 года)
Try doing different things with her that uve never done. Or get anew toy and start playing with it n have her come to u. Sounds weird but build ur own connection with her n she'll come around.
Eliza·
Aww don't say that babies act up sometimes but I'm sure she loves u I mean she was in ur belly for 9months ? soon she'll be drawn to u! Btw My daughter wasn't attached to me But thn again I was only 15 when I had her... my son is different, he's been up my but ever since he learned that I'm "momma" lol and I was afraid he wouldn't be bcs I didn't breast feed but we have a special bond that I love! Every child is different , give her some time!