Ugh I hope this gets better been married 3 years and together 8 years and now that we have a little boy coming in 60 days my husband never spends any time with me starting to feel like I am single and pregnant. He gets home says hi and goes in garage snd works out there until midnight 1 a.m. 😓😓please tell me that this is gonna get better I don't want to be a single mom.
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@db413 yeah that's how we are to. Ever sences he went on a bachelor party I feel like I am not good enough
@boymom_lmb thanks for letting me know that I am not alone. Yeah I have told him that I would like to spend more time with him and he does for a couple days then back at it but ever sences he went on a bachelor party I litterly feel like I am not good enough anymore
That's how I've been feeling at least a
Couple nights a week, my man works 12hr says so I know he's tired & stressed.. I was taken out of work since June so I think the loneliness and being so bored being alone all the time makes it worse.. but he will come home n chat a minute and usually go out in the garage as well, sometimes he'll come right back in and hang out or sometimes he will just stay out there till I wanna go to bed .. usually I just let him know when I lay down and he will come in after sometime.. I just hope it's with hectic things at work right now cuz it's now how I want the rest of my life to be.. he didn't always stay in the garage so long.. ugh who knows, try my best not to let it get me so down anymore.. I don't deserve to feel so upset so often. This probably doesn't help u any but know your not alone, hope everything works out for u. Have u tried talking to him about how u feel? I've tried and it will change for a day or two then go right back loL till I complain n cry again 🤦🏼♀️
Go to him and talk to him. Ask him about his day, his feelings. Give him hugs and kisses.He's probably scared.
Have you talk to him? I mean really talk to him. My guy was distant and then I told him how he was making me feel and he told me his fears about being a dad. I loved that he open up to me and it made me understand why he was acting that way!! I was like if he wants to act like that then I will be alone and me and my son will be fine but I realized I jumped to conclusions. Talk to him.
He's probably scared if this is your first child. I'm not married but the closer it got to my son being born, the more distant my bf got because he was scared of everything changing. He was worried about what kind of dad he was gunna be. He didn't wanna mess anything up. So he stopped all affection I was getting and just dove into video games and work. We barely even talked
@hmpjcp2014, you are good enough. I'm sure he's just scared now. Becoming parents is a scary transition.