Hi ladies so this morning I had a not so good morning. My daughter has to be more responsible enough to wake up and get ready for school on her own with out me waking her up. I got up at 6am to have her get up and she was awake but still laying in bed. Long story short she was late for school again, last week she was late also. Now my husband and I currently only have one vehicle so my daughter and stepdaughter take the city bus to school every morning and from school. Well today my daughters dad whom is my ex husband starts getting upset with while we are on the phone saying that it's my fault and I need to step it up and have her wake up and I told him no it's her responsibility to get up and get ready. Mind you my husband and I also have our two little ones that I'm home with also and my daughters dad swears that it's my fault he says that when she's with him she doesn't do that and My daughter says that she listens to her dad cause she scared of him that he is going to get very upset with her and cuss. I took her phone away and she hasn't got it back. My husband said it's not my fault and I'm doing the right thing and that she should not have to be woken up everyday to go to school in the morning. I just can't stand my daughter dad you would think he would have my side and understand but no he doesn't he is not on my side. Sorry ladies I had to vent.
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@kailey.gallentine, Thank you so much mama. I agree 💯. Yes teenagers are very hard work. Now I know not to ever call her dad lol. I'm going to keep doing it my way.
Baby daddy's are so ridiculous like that usually. It's never their fault it's always yours or the other person 🙄 if your daughter wants to be treated like an adult and make adult decisions then she should be "adult" enough to set an alarm and wake up on time. 👍🏻 no worries mama! A teenager is HARD WORK
@eryka616, thanks mama. She is a high school freshmen. She use to stay at her grandparents all the time from her dads side and I'm sorry but this why she is the way she is because the grandmother babied her to much and I couldn't take it anymore and her father wasn't doing nothing about it. They let her get away with a lot. I'm sorry that she had her own room there and at her dads and now she has to share a room but damn I'm trying my hardest with her. But today I've learned that I can't count on her dad when it comes to her at all he help me out with anything so I'm just going to do it my way. Her dad pays for her phone and got the phone for her but too bad
She's in middle or high school she should be waking herself up. You did the right thing mama. I had to get myself up and go to school everyday (my parents worked or were busy) and if I was late I would get in trouble.
@grayslynsmomma, kids this generation think that everything should be handed to them and they think they know a lot. They do take the bus