Honest questions mommas...
I gave birth to her 3 weeks ago, today.
I had 3 stitches and I believe they are gone, I didn't see anything when I checked like a week ago.... Now, I'm barley bleeding, I go 2 days without and then a very little bit here and there.
What would be the chances be of something going wrong if I were to have sex, honestly?
I go to my OB in a month for the internal check up but, he wants head and he gets really going to where he's kissing and biting all over me.....
Some answers would help..
I would wait. There's still a significant amount of healing that needs to happen before anything can go back up in there. I'm squirming just thinking about postpartum sex 😣We waited a full 2 months, maybe a bit more. You can never be too careful.
I had a little check up today but it didnt cross my mind to ask...
You can get an infection, bleeding, re-tear the area and possibility of pregnancy
Yeah its too soon to be sexual. You're supposed to wait until you have the okay from the doctor after your first check up after giving birth. I would suggest not being very sexual with your SO, unless y'all could only do head and control yourselves and not have sex.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

Moms,
We wanted to take a minute to welcome all our new users from BabyBump! We are so happy to have you with us, and we welcome you into our loving community of moms and moms-to-be!
We want to let you know that mom.life is exclusively offering to migrate your posts and photos from Baby Bump so you don't lose your precious moments by switching apps!
Here is the form for migrating your BabyBump data. If you would like us to migrate it to your mom.life profile, please fill it out as soo...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
@mississippi.mama I'm trying not to think about it.... I'm glad that appointments are when they are cause it's giving me an extra few weeks for the healing but I just figured I'd ask and see the responses.