I hate being so emotional. Last weekend, I didn't even get the spend a full day with my boyfriend,…
I hate being so emotional.
Last weekend, I didn't even get the spend a full day with my boyfriend, the Saturday he went to some party with all of his friends and we didn't talk at all on Saturday or Sunday..
Now this weekend I'm thinking I'll finally have a full weekend and be able to talk and spend time together and instead, he wants me to have not another full day with him so come Saturday he will be drinking with these same friends from last weekend where I'll be ignored and forgotten about.
Is it wrong of me to not want to spend little time with him and telling him to just have fun with his friends? This week has already been super long and dreadful since I didn't even spend 12 hours with him on Friday and it will be another dreadful 6 days because I can't ever see him on the weekdays...
maybe I'm over reacting but I don't know, just feeling like I'm not important these last few weeks.. 😔
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I don't think you're over reacting at all. It's not fair at all.
Caitlin·
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@damiensmommy1117, that's what I'm saying.. and all he says is "so you rather go without seeing each other" and it's like yeah, kinda. Like you forget about me for over 24 hours when you're with your friends and then come weekdays, you play video games and still forget about me... I just feel like I'm the second choice for things... then after next weekend if I do decide to go to New Mexico I won't see him till the 13th... I don't get to be around him and his friends when he sees them so I'm stuck at home where I didn't make any plans with anyone because I assume that my weekends are for him...
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@caityyy_lynnn
Maybe if you can start making plans for yourself he'll realize you won't always be waiting on him..? I had to do that with my boyfriend a while ago and I still do it occasionally to make him realize that he can't just push me to the side and see me whenever he wants just because it's convenient for him..
Caitlin·
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@damiensmommy1117, I would if I had the friends and he knows I don't have the friends. My best friend is moving so I'm just a lone wolf..
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@caityyy_lynnn
I don't have friends either, not one, so I go hang out with my family for a few days at a time because I happen to live with my boyfriend.
Caitlin·
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@damiensmommy1117, I live with my family so it's not really helpful... I just won't ever seem to win.