I've been really feeling like I'm out of the loop when it comes to decisions in my marriage and my daughters life, my husband made a new friend while in jail and he wants us to move into a place with him and I barely know this guy. But I feel like I have no say so in what happens in anything that has to do with my marriage as far as making decisions about anything. It's just not right. And to top it off since we live with his mom and her boyfriend I feel like I have no control over what happens to my daughter and the decisions that I make for her, he doesn't sick up for me, I feel like he always takes his mom's side. he makes me feel ganged up on between him and his mom's bs. She said some pretty mean things to me last night that she apologized for later but after she said what said to me, my husband came out to the car where I was standing and starts bitching at me and makes me even more emotional 😭. And basically telling me I'm causing more drama than it's worth and he's tired of it and that I don't really know how to care for my daughter. IM SORRY BUT THATS BULLSHIT!!! I know what's best for that little girl, she's my everything and I would never do anything that wouldn't be in her best interest. SO FUCK ALL Y'ALL THAT THINK IM NOT A GOOD ENOUGH MOMMA!!!!
You are a good mom! And you know what's best for your daughter. I would feel the same way.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
i finally let him do it
I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that t...
So this girl i am kinda friends with asked me if i feel like my face changed after having babies, because she felt like hers did majorly.. so i said other than my double chin & weight gain, no.. and i told her she looks great after having two kids! and she goes on to say - "don't be offended, but you LOOK like a mom ." 😳 she was trying to make me feel like shit. I feel like I look the same.. & the way she said was obv meant to offend me 😡 like, she just made me feel like complete crap.
Rant
My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
Will your Mom be in the delivery room?
My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
Its none of my business...but i wouldn't do it... I'm so sketchy about people i would never allow it .. I watch to much investigation Discovery lol i would totally be on your side about this one !