Question my sister just had a miscarriage and I feel weird talking about my pregnancy with her. We are super close and I tell her everything but she has been trying to have kids but always miscarriage I feel bad saying anything about my pregnancy. How do y'all think I should talk to her like keep it to myself or talk to her about it?
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I will ask her. I don't want her to feel like I'm rubbing it in her face the last thing I want is her to feel like I don't care about her only myself
If y'all are close maybe sit down and ask her if she'd rather you not talk about yours for a while or if she wants to hear about it so she can make the decision on how she feels?
I only have 1 friend I talk to everyday and I talk about being pregnant so much with her she is excited and has been with me for over a year now and I feel like she is getting tired of me talking about being pregnant and I have noone else to talk to about it and after 3 miscarriages I'm just so excited to make it this far in my pregnancy Idk if I should just stop talking about it for awhile
My sister ISN'T lying she's had two miscarriages i was there comforting her for both of them she wouldn't lie about something like that
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
I would talk to her about it , I've had many miscarriages & right after one of mine , my sister became pregnant , and she was very excited , and even though it was hard for me to find excitement at first , I realized thats my sister and her kids will always be like theyre mine ,i put my feelings aside & was very excited for her bl& but I definitely didn't want her to think she couldn't talk to me about one of the most exciting times in her life bc it can become a stressful situation for mommy and I surely didn't want her to feel distant from me in any way possible ,