I really see why the old people say "Wait until you're married to have kids"

I've always said wait until you're married to have kids and I'm 20 lol 😂 Im so glad I listened to myself and waited til marriage to have kids because I know I couldn't do it without my husbands love, encouragement, and support

@amberjacq, it's just when you're married I think that it's easier to compromise because you guys have made a life long commitment to eachother. With just a relationship

It's just weird idk

@torrey_ Yeah life long love is great to have especially when it comes to having children but with just boyfriend, and girlfriend you don't really have that promise of forever, and with marriage its also nice knowing that when times get hard you always have each others support, and comfort 😊 true love in marriage just gives you alot of peace

@amberjacq, I hope I have that bond, love and security one day girl

Yea. I often think if I wasn't married, I would have left because compromising and forgiving is BIG in marriage. But I'm thankful I did have kids after marriage because we get to be an example for our children & our family & friends. A lot of our generation have given up on marriage and find it meaningless which is sad

@momofdeuce, yes! I'm a big believer in marriage

I grew up in the house with my grandma and grandpa. Which was kinda like a blue print for me.

@torrey_ You will, God has someone out there for everyone sometimes it just takes people longer to find each other 😊

@torrey_ same for my husband and I. Our parents weren't married but both our grandparents we're /are .