Well even just get yourself comfy,like on top of your bed with the pillows propped etc. Watch a movie or even get a little nap yourself, you'll need it too! I had this for a while with my first but I could lie down with her and slowly we progressed to her lying beside me but my arm under her 😩 I think we punish ourselves lol x

@staceyhmfc you know what, I probably should. Its not like I am doing anything apart from looking at my phone or reading when she is on me!

For some reason she is most comfortable when she is vertical, tummy down, very weird. But you are right, I should start getting her to sleep next to me instead, soon I simply won't be able to hold her on top of me like that...

@reduplikate you don't think its like lying on your back and cutting off the baby's oxygen? I don't think I feel faint, but keep this paranoid thought in my mind each time and ask myself if I am breathless. Crazy.

I wouldn't have thought so but can you not lie down too and make the most of it lol doesn't look very comfy for you and your back?!x

Nope xx @kate_smith