i just wanna go on a rant for a second.. my friend is 2 & a half months behind me in our pregnancies…
i just wanna go on a rant for a second.. my friend is 2 & a half months behind me in our pregnancies (she's only 9 weeks & im 19) and she talks nonstop about her baby which is understandable because she's excited but at my gender reveal, all she did was talk about her baby. what she's gonna name it, if it's a boy or a girl, how she had to unbutton her pants to sit down because her stomach is getting so big and everything in between. literally all that came out of her mouth was about her baby at MY gender reveal for MY healthy baby, not hers 😒 she will have her time, this was Karter's time to be celebrated and she does this nonstop ever since she found out. is it selfish of me to feel this way? any time my baby gets brought up (usually by other people) she has to jump in & tell everyone she's pregnant or talk about her pregnancy. for example today at work someone brought in their 5 day old baby boy & one of my coworkers waved me over & told the woman that i was expecting a baby boy as well. then my friend walks over and talks about how she's pregnant too blah blah blah. everyone at my job knew she was pregnant since she was 5 weeks and there's still people at my job who don't know! her whole situation w/ her baby daddy just gives me a headache too but i won't get into that. i feel like a complete bitch for feeling this way but damn. anytime i wanna be happy about my baby or talk about my baby or someone brings my baby up to me she jumps in and makes it about herself & her baby. i am just so annoyed🙄😠
Ashley S·
So it sounds like you guys are friends and also work together? You should never be close close buddies with your work friends. They are people you work with and that should be it. Your sole purpose of working is about supporting your family and earning $. You need boundaries (it's healthy not mean) you need space. So just keep this relationship with her at work nothing more.
Ashley S·
Bc when you guys get close outside and inside the job, if something goes down you don't want problems or inconveniences at work.
Nene D·
Мама двоих (2 года, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
No you're not wrong every mother deserves their shine to feel special I don't care if it's your first or fifth child. it's extremely annoying of her with the me too shit!
Jazmin Kim ·
В ожидании первенца
Why steal your thunder, it was supposed to be your day...smh..😕
bai🧜🏼♀️✨·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (23 нед.)
@shinanigans, i only work a day a week there & most of my friends are friends i made at work & ive never had any problems w them besides her, it's just ever since she got pregnant all she's been doing is talking about herself and being really annoying and maybe it's just my hormones but i think i need a break from her lol
bai🧜🏼♀️✨·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (23 нед.)
@goddessofthree, @jaz85222, right the way i see it is this is my time, she will have hers eventually. & the fact that she brought up HER baby at MY gender reveal & so literally at my gender reveal all my friends were talking about her baby 😒 like hello? is my baby just irrelevant like my baby is the reason y'all are even here right now lol
Ashley S·
@baileyy, in her eyes your life could be the life she always wanted. And some people are just very self centered that's just how they are. And there's nothing you can do to change that. If you want change, you're gonna have to space yourself from her, def don't see her outside of work