One of my major issues with my SO is that he's very protective with his phone he always has been and it really irritates…

@caseyann19, exactly!

@missheatherbaby, I am being too nice and I don't want to cause an argument about it but I think that it needs to be done I can't sit and wonder what is on his phone all of the time if there isn't anything on it then this shouldn't be a problem

@gmartinez31, I think I'm going to this afternoon

@miniwolfe, on his night stand right beside the bed

@caseyann19, if he has an iPhone then it won't show the numbers that he texts that are also iPhones but it will show everyone he calls. He could also be using apps like WhatsApp, tango, etc. I think your being to nice and worrying about his feelings. You give me your phone or we're done. Don't let anyone walk all over you and if he's hiding stuff in his phone then that's exactly what he's doing. That's not fair to you at all.

@caseyann19 always go with your intuition. I'd confront him. He shouldn't be bothered if he has nothing to hide.

@caseyann19 man I would do anything to get his phone. Where does be put it at night?

@miniwolfe, he'd just call it off his phone he'd still not let me have it 🙄

@gmartinez31, I don't usually get so bothered by it but here lately I just feel like something is off and I get annoyed too but I let him look so he feels better after he doesn't find anything lol

@missheatherbaby, I do but it doesn't show all of the numbers he contacts it only shows some like it doesn't even show my number it mostly just shows his buddies 🙄 and I've tried that but he usually blows up

@caseyann19 I stopped looking through his phone but when I do he's not around to see me lol.

I don't think he looks through mine either but when he does try I get annoyed. Not that I'm hiding anything i just think it's unnecessary.

@caseyann19, look on the phone account. But I'd just be like I think it's weird that you hold on to your phone like it's evidence so let me see it. If he won't let you look at it then you know he's hiding something and you can decide what to do from there.

If he had nothing to hide he wouldn't care if u had his phone. He is hinding something that's for sure. Y don't u hide ur phone and tell him u need his to find urs. Lmao.

@missheatherbaby, yeah that's all I've been thinking about. It really irritates me but I don't know how to address it without causing a huge fight

@caseyann19, he's definitely hiding something. I wouldn't even allow that. My husband doesn't even take his phone out of the room because he doesnt want me to think anything.

@gmartinez31, he has complete access to mine anytime he wants it and he gave me the password to his but he has it on him 24/7 and every time I ask to see it he blows everything out of proportion saying he doesn't go through mine (which is a lie) and that I don't trust him

@missheatherbaby, that's how I feel. He has complete access to mine anytime he wants to pick it up but he has his on him 24/7 and I literally can't touch it. 🙄

Had that issue with my SO. We were both that way and agreed to have the same password. No issues anymore since we both have access if we want it.

Clearly he's hiding something then. Tell him you want to see his phone. If he lets you then cool if he doesn't he's hiding something 🤷🏻‍♀️