Needing to vent! The girls and I are staying with my mom for a couple months so my husband can get his new job out of…
Needing to vent!
The girls and I are staying with my mom for a couple months so my husband can get his new job out of state situated.
The basement was supposed to be cleaned before we moved in. My moms dog shit all over down there itlooks like she didn't let her out for a month! Well she didn't clean it. So we are upstairs with her. I've cleaned the entire upstairs for her. Super dirty, lots of dog hair. I do the dishes, scrub the floors, vacuum.
So today I leave to go tie up loose ends at my old house and she offered to watch my youngest. I drive an hour there and I start cleaning and loading up the last of our stuff and she calls me freaking out. Tells me to come home now because my daughter won't stop crying and my dog is eating food off the counter. First off, that doesn't sound like my dog. She doesn't eat people food, she doesn't beg, and I know she doesn't have the balls to try some stupid shit like that. I think it's her cat. She allows him to eat on the counter and he's always eating shit out of the sink. But she wants to blame my 6 year old dog who has never tried to steal food off the counter or table. She said the bowl broke when it fell. I come home and she said theirs glass in the kitchen. She picked up the bowl, but left the little chunks (about the size of a nickel) on the floor when I have an almost 2 year old. Didn't really try to clean it all the way up.
She also leaves the dogs water bowl in the middle of the fucking floor that's always getting kicked over. I put it in the corner and she keeps putting it back! She is totally expecting me to clean the entire house. She hasn't cleaned a fucking thing since we got her over a week ago. I pay $200 in rent; that's more than half of of what she pays in rent.
She's 4 months behind in rent and when i paid her she bought booze and cigs. If she gets evicted, so do we. 😡 I'm trying hard not to make a fuss about it because i don't want my SO to get upset. He's in another state working and he doesn't need extra stress. I know if I bring something up to my mom she will say "well it's my house" or "I've been living alone for a long time" "don't like it, leave"
The reason I'm staying here is because o can't find anywhere else that will allow my dog. I'm trying to stay positive because my SO's new job is very good for our family and I'm hoping i won't be here longer than two months. I understand that my mom didn't have to let us stay. I do love my mom, but she gets weird after awhile. She starts getting passive aggressive and then mean. I hope she doesn't get mean with my daughter...she's a toddler..and the reason we were supposed to be downstairs.
Harley Quinn ·Мама сына-младенца, беременна (8 нед.)
I would say ride it out as best as you can. Maybe see if you can be the one that pays rent so that you don't run the risk of getting evicted. As for the cleaning, honestly your probably going to be doing the brunt of it until you get out and then she will see what you did for her.
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