Just wondering if anyone else is scared shitless that their relationship with their kid is going to be like the…

Just wondering if anyone else is scared shitless that their relationship with their kid is going to be like the relationship you had with your mother. I am. I was a daddys girl, i dont have many memories with my mother growing up. I dont have memories of her reading a book to me, playing with me in the tub, laying in bed with me, tucking me in at night. We didnt really spend alot of quiet time together either, it seemed like she was always gone. This has led to a relationship where i feel like a stranger with her. Worst part is, the kind of person she is, and the person i am, we butt heads often. I sometimes dont even like her, as horrible as that sounds. My fiance says that theres something in his religion thats to the effect of, whatever you do to or feel for your parents, your child will feel for you. I started to worry my ass off.