🚨 Rant warning 🚨
So I've been super self conscious lately because I've gained 45 lbs with my pregnancy. My fiance knows this but I don't think he understands the depth of it...like, I feel depressed about it almost. And I feel like when I want to cuddle or something and he avoids me, maybe it's because of my weight gain. He says it's not but I can't help but point to the obvious. I feel like we're drifting apart because I'm so insecure about myself that I'm pushing him away and in return, he's pushing me away...idk but I am not too excited for the postpartum depression that is headed my way.
Ull be fine I promise once the baby's out ull feel like u dropped half that weight rite there n then ull notice it rite away and feel it ...ull still probably have ur baby pouch but where a "faja" it's almost like a waist shaper. Make sure it's tight but not soooo tight to hurt u and it will adjust ur tummy to where it was post baby
I feel you on this felt the exact same way but I as well lost most of the weight I'm 5lbs from preprego..after I had my baby my body changed in weird ways but I found ways on how to work on it..hope you feel better.
@anxiously.lovely, don't worry on how much you have gain, when you have baby you'll lose it but I'll take time but you'll be fine hun. I have gain 25 to 30 pounds (all belly) and I feel good about my body, my husbands still finds me attractive and tells me how beautiful I am.