Yea I'm on number #6 and my body is just too tired.. It's a lot with a big family @prettynpinkk2617

@hismineoursfamilyof11 I thought I was done at 3 but here I am at #4 on the way!! Future Hubby still wants 2-3 more..hmm..I don't know, we may just have to adopt!!

Yes and taking away the fact that I could never carry another baby just mentally breaks me in pieces even though I feel I don't ever want to again I still have that option and to take that I just can't handle.. Maybe if they only burnt and tied them then I could but to take them away completely then I could never reverse it and I can't take that.. I'm going to have to get him to get to a Dr and get it done cause I know when it comes time I won't do it just like the last two times I was suppose to and couldn't.. @sadiesue0718

@hismineoursfamilyof11, hubby wants to be done at 2, but I want 3.... so it's going to be an interesting conversation since I strong armed him into baby #2.

He wanted one, had a surprise pregnancy, miscarried. He was on board with 2 kids after that. Had some time to heal, then he changed his mind and said one and done.... I got super mad for him playing with my emotions and said no! It's two with an option on 3! I'm not doing the only child thing.

So, he may get fixed, or in 3 years we may have another, or we may be having twins right now! We won't know for another 6 weeks. But I'm right there with you! It's an emotional deal and even though you know you're done, you can't change your mind.... Well you can with adoption and foster, but you're done with the pregnancy phase...

Yes for some reason taking that away from me is so emotional for me and idk why when I know I'm done having babies.. It's crazy how it gets to me so much@sadiesue0718

Yea I was on the patch and using condoms and still got pregnant and my youngest and this baby will be a yr and two months apart as well and I also got a two yr old and a four yr old and two older and let me tell you it's hard as ever I just can't have anymore.. And I tried long term birth control and it came unattached from my uterus so I think I'm just going to have to do it if he don't get fixed.. @ashleyandresadan

@hismineoursfamilyof11, it's a much simpler, cheaper and less painful procedure for men to get fixed than woman....

One of my friends had her tubes taken out because he hubby wouldn't get fixed. She was laid up for a few days, but said she was fine doing it.

I get it though.... giving up part of yourself and the ability to have kids.... it's a conversation that's coming for us too.

@hismineoursfamilyof11, I was on the pill and still making sure my husband was using condoms and we came out pregnant, I felt so bad because my son is still a baby they will only be a year and 2 months apart so I'm planning on getting the 10 year just because I don't want to get my tubes tied and burned them if I want to get pregnant later on I won't be able to

I tried that this last time and it didn't work for me.. My SO said he would get fixed but he works so much and hasn't even got a Dr yet to even talk to them about it so I'm hoping maybe he gets it done soon so I don't have to worry about it.. I love my family but this momma is overloaded for sure..@toadmom

@hismineoursfamilyof11 I have a big family too and feel torn and am allergic to birth control hair fell out all kinds of crazy stuff happens to me, but at this point all we can do is be careful...lol😥😊

I guess I'm going to talk more with my Dr next week and she what she suggest if she has anything good I will let you know cause I can't be having anymore I'm crazy enough with as many as I have now.. 😂

Yeah that's how I am to my husband hates me on bc because my emotions are completely whacked and I just not myself I'll only do pills though because the depo screwed my body up way to much and I don't like inserting or putting anything in my body and I don't trust the patchs so that leaves me nothing lol but he refuses to get fixed so in my world no sex again which because I'm pregnant and have no sex drive I'm fine with that but idk what to do either

Idk what to do cause I was on the weekly patch and using protection and still got pregnant with this little man.. But me and birth control don't mix I have no desire while on it and I'm like bipolar crazy person and I can't handle how that makes me feel..so I guess I'm going to have to do it regardless but I was told it could permanently make me feel that way getting them tied and I can't live like that forever.. I'm so confused on what to do..@ace160

I'm the same way I don't want anymore kids at all but I don't wanna tie my tubes and hubby refuses to get fixed so I'm screwed 😂

Does that have hormones in it and how does it work never heard of that before@ashleyandresadan

I wanted to get mine tied and they told me the same thing so I'm just going to go with the 10 year copper IUD