Listening to abit of good Charlotte while I do the dishes before I have to go and pick Stan the man…

anything I listened to as a teen is such a guilty pleasure now haha 🤘

@beffgoude, oh I know lol I still listen to everything I used to listen to when I was younger I still love it 😊 x

@sarahlucindagiddins yeh I get you, it was a good era. without that music I wouldn't be who I am now! 👌

@beffgoude, exactly Hun , I'm just so glad I met a guy who liked what I liked as in my school it wasn't very cool to listen to what I listened too x

@sarahlucindagiddins exactly the same as me, without music I'd have never met my partner either. Although my taste progressed to death metal and that was how I met him after a gig he was doing.

Yeh I know what you mean, i was a 'scene kid' had the colourful hair, skinny jeans the lot haha 😂

@beffgoude, that's how I met him too, he was in a band, so the type of music he used to play is what I would listen too, but as I got older I got abit more heavy too, but I can seriously listen to all of it still now, even coming down to my fashion sense I think it's toned down abit but it's still to extreme for randomers on the street lol x

@sarahlucindagiddins yay a fellow 'im with the band' gf, we've so much in common! 🤘

I get what you mean, I get the looks too! I like to think of myself as a cool mum though, someone my kids will want to invite there friends round to meet instead of hide me away! haha xx

@beffgoude, you look like a cool mum 👍🏻, I like to think I'm one too, my son loves it when I dye my hair or I get a new tattoo and I like to think I've passed my amazing fashion sense down to him lol , when we go shopping he picks up things that I would pick for him. He loves going to vans, he used to like famous Stars and Stripes when we used to go in Camden, but it's not there anymore x

@sarahlucindagiddins you are! 👌 and awwh that's cute! kids are normally influenced by parents, so makes sense he'd like what you like. plus makes it easier for you too, cause you don't have to convince him to wear it, cause he chose it! 🤘

brody's only just started taking an interest in picking out clothes, but he likes his shoes to match his mum and dad's. so vans all round!

@beffgoude, yeah exactly he likes to be different he won't pick anything that everyone else has got, he wants to stand out 😊, you can never go wrong with a pair of vans, Stan used to be like that like waNting to match but he wants so many pairs it's hard to keep up lol, even coming down to Ava I will put a cute little dress on her but I have to pair it with some vans or converse 😊 x

@sarahlucindagiddins yeh that's so good though, embrace there individuality! hoping brody stays like it as he grows up.

I have a such a soft spot for dresses matched with trainers 😍 not enough people do it!

haha can't go wrong with them, we've already got a pair vans crib shoes ready for this baby 🤘

@beffgoude, oh bless I remember the first vans I bought Stan when he was a newborn , I kept them for Ava and for any kids in the future 😊, I basically live in dresses and trainers I find it so comfy and especially I'm always running around with school/nursery runs and everything else going on. Do you know what your having boy or girl? I want another one extend my little family 😊 x

@sarahlucindagiddins I'm a shoe hoarder, I literally have every pair of shoes Brody has worn under our bed 😂

Exactly! It's practical and stylish in my opinion.

Noooo were not finding out this time! I think boy though, partner thinks its a girl, so we'l have to see on the day!

Ooooh, go for it! You'l have a nice little gap between them all! I always fancied 3 kids myself, might happen if this one's not a girl, my partners already said that haha 😬 xxx

@beffgoude, I think it's good though to keep there old baby things likes as long as it's clean and can be used again, it's less things I have to buy lol, I would love to do that not find out I mean but my partner hates surprises, his argument is that he wants to be prepared and buy the right things but I think it's more fun not knowing 😊, I want 3 too Stan and Avas birthdays are in winter time and so is my partners birthday so I want one near me in June lol. I think it's nice to have one of each so you get to experience a bay girl and boy 😊. What do you want it to be? X

@sarahlucindagiddins haha tell him you don't have to be that prepared, you've already got one of each, there ain't any more surprises after that aslong as it's a healthy baby! 😘 Brody's birthdays in may and this baby will be December so really spaced out. Would of liked it not as close to Christmas but it's pot luck really when you conceive haha!

I don't mind really, I've always visioned myself with a tribe of boys, but I'm coming round to the idea of a girl too xxx

@beffgoude, it is annoying having it near Christmas stans is on the 7th of December 🙈, so we just buy a load of presents and then split it lol x

@sarahlucindagiddins yeh, hoping this one comes earlier in December instead of 16th so there's a bit more of a gap 😂 and we have a budget for presents, so £50 for birthdays, £100 at Christmas.

@beffgoude, that's the exact budget we have for Christmas and birthday lol I bet your excited to meet your little one 😊 xx