Remind me why I even bother asking people to come to my appointments and be apart of my daughters life? Like, everything…

I hate people like that they say we don't let them get involved enough it's the person fault for not trying smh.

@kimpower, that would be my best friend for you. She's ignored my texts all weekend then sends me one last night saying she won't be going to my appointment today. I then told her about my appointment on Friday to get a 3D ultrasound done and no text. She wants the title of aunt but no one has been here for anything. 🙃

@caityyy_lynnn everyone makes promises never actually does them don't promise me if you can't do it warn me two days ahead if you can't ! Everyone wants the title but you earn it smh

@kimpower, I feel it. Just how at my baby shower, I was expecting 40 and got 20. My family was rushing everything to hurry up and leave too.

@caityyy_lynnn. I feel like when things are rushed I feel like they didn't actually put the time and effort for me. I'm having my baby shower in October not sure what day though.

@kimpower, I had mine at 29 weeks because my cousins and her husband were going on a cruise. I wanted to do it this weekend but they wouldn't be back. So I have my baby shower all planned out for nearly 2 months and I got nothing but summer clothes, no essential stuff like bath soap, wipes, diapers, bottles, pacifiers, etc. and I'm a single mom so money is extremely tight.

@caityyy_lynnn I'm planning to have two baby showers one at San Francisco with my mother and here in Anaheim for the rest of the family. You got this girl #Girlpower💁 Honestly having a baby is a huge responsibility making is the easy part raising a child is a mission I believe you can do it.

I know we just started talking but if you need someone I'm a click away welcome to message me.

@kimpower, I have my boyfriend but my baby's father is a douche who only wants to help me with anything when he wants something. I'd rather work long hours to make sure she's okay than to deal with him for another minute.

Thank you girl, i appreciate it. You've mainly been the one who comments on my stuff and I appreciate it.

@caityyy_lynnn That's a little boy not a man if he can't help out with his child who is he call himself a father I would be ashamed if I was him any one can be called father you've to play the roll to have that title. I'm glad you got some support from your boyfrien doing things alone can be tough. Yeah I'm always here that made me sound like a low life haha.

@kimpower, he better not call himself a father. His whole family blames me and he blames me for him not being around but I don't stop him. Requested a paternity test in the divorce paperwork and I laughed because since the beginning, he thought she was someone else's child. I'm just sitting here like I wish, I don't want to deal with you for the rest of my life.

@caityyy_lynnn I wouldn't talk to him if isn't about your child his family is always going to be on his side no matter how wrong he is. He is the man of this child sounds like they're making excues for him thats rude of him asking for a paternity test that's how you know someone is guilty when they question you.

@kimpower, we don't talk at all, actually. He doesn't ask about her what so ever.

@caityyy_lynnn Honestly better off getting full custody if that's how childish he is going to be.

Honestly if he starts telling people "she isn't letting allowing me to see my child ". You were not being a father in the first place why act surprised ?

@kimpower, I plan on it. He wants to battle me for 50/50 shared. And I'm like try me, 1. He's in the military so he won't get it. 2. He's talking about leaving California where she will be born. And 3. He admits on social media accounts that he likes to get drunk only being 20 years old

This is a chance for you screenshot and record of much of a low life he is I wish you the best of luck in court this guy sounds pathetic .

@kimpower, oh I have. I'm more than done with his actions. If he gets visitation, I'm going to fight to have it be monitored. I don't trust him at all

@caityyy_lynnn sadly this has to be done I understand.