@torrey_ i agree with you girl!! We got whoopings and were still fine!! Lol a spoon or belt on the appropriate area of the butt cheeks is fine lol this is why kids are brats and think they can get away with things cuz their parents are too afraid to discipline them. Its pathetic.

@ilovemychildren, I don't need a parenting class to be a parent or do what I believe is right for my child! If I decide to pop him on his hand or ass for doing bad shit that's what I'll do
If I decide to talk to him or take away his toys that's what I'll do!
Thank you for your unwanted input on this post though!

Then you shouldn't bring your boyfriend into your children's life especially if they are there helping you raise and take care of them.

I honestly think it depends on the age, the boyfriend walked in, in their lives. My boyfriend and I got together when he was a few months old so that is his dad. I allow him to teach my son right from wrong. But I don't allow him to make the major decisions.

@tejuh2m225, right. Takes a lot of time. Especially now that we have kids. It takes extra long to have that trust for
Someone around them !
And I'm not worried about that comment about "hitting" being abuse. Call it what you want. If I don't do it, and discipline my child the police will..school officials will....

So fuck all that

@beebaby, exactly!

I agree. It is not the place of a secondary parent to discipline a child.

@torrey_ yes ma'am! Absolutely! Tell her to shove a cork in it.

@juliaschade41, talking about a parenting class. I don't need a parenting class to know how to handle my own damn child
If I want to pop his ass that's what I'll do.

@juliaschade41, girl 😭😭😭

@torrey_ girl I had to block this woman cuz she thinks her opinion is above everyone else's. She has pissed off a lot of people on this app.

@torrey_ i agree with you girl!! We got whoopings and were still fine!! Lol a spoon or belt on the appropriate area of the butt cheeks is fine lol this is why kids are brats and think they can get away with things cuz their parents are too afraid to discipline them. Its pathetic.

@ilovemychildren, I don't need a parenting class to be a parent or do what I believe is right for my child! If I decide to pop him on his hand or ass for doing bad shit that's what I'll do
If I decide to talk to him or take away his toys that's what I'll do!
Thank you for your unwanted input on this post though!

That's a form of discipline

Popping them on their hand. Isn't abuse

@ilovemychildren, a spanking isn't abuse

@ilovemychildren, different strokes for different folks. It varies from person to person
But my boyfriend won't touch my children

@torrey_ that's called abuse

@torrey_ oh lol well discipline is definitely not hitting your children.

@ilovemychildren, talking to them and telling them right from wrong yes but no spanking and popping them
No

@ilovemychildren, that's great for you and your family
But it would be a no for me
And my definition of discipline is spanking and whooping
So yeah. No for me.

My "boyfriend" helped me discipline my kids from the gate. He is now my husband and is a great father to all of them

Definitely, hell no