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Sarah
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I just need to vent a bit. So the guy who got me pregnant turned out to be a liar and a cheater. Lot…

I just need to vent a bit. So the guy who got me pregnant turned out to be a liar and a cheater. Lot story but turns out I wasn't even the one he was "cheating" on. He had a fiance of 4 years who he told me he had broken up with before he actually had. Well it all went down from there. His mom found out I was pregnant and initially refused to believe her son was the one in the wrong and immediately started demanding a paternity test and accusing me of drinking and doing drugs while pregnant. If got a little better and he confessed everything to his mother bit now it seems like his mother is calling the shots and I'm so stressed because since she initially threatened to report me for drugs and drinking (i absolutely do not do either) I'm terrified at some point she is going to try and take my kids from me or at least this one. Even though I know there isn't a real reason she could do this I'm terrified of it and her but I don't want her to know I'm scared of her. I'm also scared that she will call CPS and there will be something they find I never thought of or didn't know was a reason. I live with my dad and he keeps telling me I'm over reacting about it and i just keep getting more upset because no one understands the stress I'm under WHILE pregnant. I'm scared the stress is gonna make me lose the baby and I can't find a way away from it. The only "positive" reaction I get is from a coworker who mainly sees the situation as some juicy gossip. And not me I'm pain and overwhelmed and terrified. I don't know what to do. I've lost 7 pounds since August 14th and idk if it's stress or morning sickness but that scares me too because it's hard for me to eat. I've had problems eating because of stress before. I'm scared and I keep crying and I feel so alone.

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thehergruderfamily

Shima Hergruder

Stay strong 💪 mama she doing that to scary you away from her son she see the wrong and tryna to menipulate you as tho its ur fault don't fall for it. When a women see there son in a pickle they gonna spoil the whole jar he was in the wrong for the greed he did he'll reap what he sole in due time but she trying to menipulate you

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ashleea9898

🧡Ashlee🧡

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Don't worry hun you should have nothing to worry about . If she calls CPS they'll obviously drug test you & if you pass (you should since you said you don't do them) then you're good . They just don't go off on what someone says .

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deleted-user

If you don't do drugs or drink while pregnant and she reports you because of that, nothing will happen. They would more than likely do a drug test on you before they even would take your child away. My mother in law too, treats her son like he's 5 still and doesn't think anything is ever his fault. She always blames everyone else for his actions even me. His wife! Some mothers just can't butt out of their kids lives even when their kids become parents. Why don't you just get a retraining order on both of them. You don't need the turmoil and neither does your child.

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deleted-user

deleted-user

Restraining*

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