Rant? I guess. I just hate how when I look back at old pictures I seemed more confident back then and now I'm not. I feel so ugly, I low key was tearing up because I just feel s...

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Rant? I guess. I just hate how when I look back at old pictures I seemed more confident back then and now I'm not. I feel so ugly, I low key was tearing up because I just feel so gross and I'm about to have my son idk how I'm going to be in pictures if I feel so bad about myself. I don't even want anyone at the hospital with me when he comes, I feel like I'm going to look like hell and I don't want people seeing me like that. I never in a million years, ever will regret my son but I kinda wish I could've been at a good spot where I love myself more before having him. I just feel overwhelmed right now I feel like shit.

Esther · Answer

@alexiusm, your in your last trimester those darn hormones !! Just stay positive lil mama. If you don't want people going that's alright or set certain visitor times at least that way it gives you time to prepare for them.

kammy · Answer

Definitely!!!

Alexius Ortiz · Answer

@kambam, I guess I'll have to be patient, I'm also anxious about the healing process and just wanting to feel more myself again. But that's true, fuck what others think I just need to work on how I think about myself 😬 it's a battle sometimes but I hope when my sons here it'll all be happy times and I'll be too wrapped up in him 👶🏻💙

kammy · Answer

I didn't feel totally myself until recently honestly! Mentally and physically. I got back to the gym at 7m pp and I'm feeling myself again. It Will happen, don't stress and fuck what others think!

Alexius Ortiz · Answer

@esther.ibarra85, thank you, it's such a whirlwind of emotions I'm feeling, I do feel proud of my body for creating this little boy inside of me, I just I guess feel overwhelmed right now and also anxious but thanks for the kind words I appreciate it

Alexius Ortiz · Answer

@kambam, thank you, the hormones are probably adding on to how I feel, plus being anxious about his arrival. I just see so many mama's out there posting pics looking good and I feel like I'm going to look like hell when the time comes. I hope after he's here I will feel a lot better. It's weird too because I'm not even the type of person who puts too much effort into her appearance. I don't even wear makeup, and I don't really try with clothes. I just have weird self esteem issues

Esther · Answer

It's always hard to see your body transform .. but our beautiful bodies give life and that alone is such a wonderful thing. Your body goes through many changes and can always with eating right and mild workout snap back. Just remember it takes 9 months to grow your baby and have realistic goals afterwards. Your baby will love you always and the min you have them in your arms will fill your heart. You are a beautiful mama to be.

kammy · Answer

Your prego hormones are probAbly making it worse. Don't stress. The weight will shed. I looked like shit in labor 😂 most ppl do. I was super chunky for a while after baby but still took photos for me to look back on! You gotta love yourself all the time. Looks aren't everything. Focus on feeling HEALTHY. And enjoy that baby. Take the damn pics ❤

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