So ive felt like a potato all day 😞 and I walk into Red Robin and I notice this waitress staring and body checking me (which is the worst EVER). I sit down feeling really insecure and fat, when the same waitress comes over to take our order. She looks at me and says "You are so beautiful! When you were walking in I was thinking about how beautiful you are". I almost started crying because I was thinking the worst about myself 2 seconds before. This taught me that my insecurities are what rob me of my happiness and seeing the best in situations. It clouds my judgment, when in reality, things are not as bad as my minds sees them.