I don't know if I should have a baby shower or not. I don't really want one. But people keep telling me that I should.
I didn't have one this time even though it pissed some people off. It's a nice thought but honestly it was an awful lot of stress last time being surrounded by people all watching me.
If you don't want one don't have one. Just spend time with your family. My mom wants me to have a baby shower but I told her I only wanted a family gathering. She's pushed for her way this entire time. I finally told her if it's not mostly how I'd like it there won't be one. Cuz I won't be there. She finally agreed to have it my way
I didn't want a shower but ended up having a small bbq type thing. no games or things like that. Just family and a couple close friends.
Instead of having a shower there's a new wave called a baby sprinkle.. lol it's just family and they get u smaller gifts