Tried talking to him and it went nowhere..
When I brought up stuff that bothers me, he just turned it all around to him instead of talking but me..
I.E
I'd say that it bothers me that he doesn't come in and spend time with his kid giving me a break and time to do dinner..
He would turn around and say. The house house is my job and he's tired and hurting every day when he comes in from working in the sun all day!!