My husband and I have been married for over 2 years. His cousin is still friends with his ex and they talk all the time. She hasn't even tried to talk to me or get to know me. I feel like his family doesn't accept me or understand how I feel about it.
@onelove622, I'm sorry you went through that. I told him and he talked to her, but she didn't care, so my husband said he doesn't want to associate himself and our family with someone who still talks to his ex
I feel your pain, no one talks to my husbands X, but when we first got together I was never going to be as good as she was for him. After 3 years things kinda starting getting better and now my husband and I have been together 5 years and I tell his family like it is any more.... It does help tho knowing my husband has my back, we both went 2 years not talking to them cuz they kept calling me horrible names. And didn't get to see their grand kids. It took them a bit to realize what they where missing out on. I am so sorry you have to deal with it. It just isn't right nor fair. Have you told your husband how you feel?
It is very disrespectful and it makes going around them hard. I'm sorry you have to go through it too I know how hard it is!
@mrs.perez_3, it's so disrespectful! I'm sorry you're going through it too
Same here! My husband and I have been married for 8 years and his whole family still talks to his ex even knowing all the stuff she has done to try get with him while we have been together. They barely talk to me at all unless they have to.
Well its a start and at least he loves you enough to tell everyone that. And sadly maybe after some time of being completely cut off they will realize the x isn't worth it and being jerks isn't worth not seeing their grand babies. That's what it took for my in laws. I really hope it changes soon for you tho. I know how stressful this can be. Big hugs, tour not alone lol there are ass hole in laws every where lol