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🚨Rant because I've had enough🚨 we've lived in cali for a little over a year now. My boyfriend has been working and so…

🚨Rant because I've had enough🚨 we've lived in cali for a little over a year now. My boyfriend has been working and so have I. I only work part time so I can stay with my son. He works "full time" we have had to borrow EVERY single month for rent since we moved out here even when his dad was living with us. We got our own place last month and which I paid the bulk of moving. Then his grandma paid our first months rent because his job wasn't working him. This month we're short $400 because he blows through his fucking money. He got a new car that's "better" on gas but he's always putting gas in it. Then he has the fucking nerve to say he needs my entire next check to pay the rest of the deposit on it. Excuse me? I have electric, gas, drs appointment and shit for our son I need to pay. I'm not helping with a damn cent on that car when I didn't approve of getting it in the first place. His mom is always giving us money saying it's ok she knows it's hard starting out. It's not starting out when it's been over a year. I've had enough and I'm about to lose my shit

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alexandriahill08

Alex Мама троих детей

priorities right... but it is hard to manage money and save sometimes. when u have so much shot to get and pay for.. and poof!"its gone $

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thecreatress

Jes

I feel you, my man blows through his money and then wants to try and make it all back 2 weeks before rent is due. Every single month. Fortunately we've only had to borrow money once. But the stress and pressure the last Couple of weeks every single month is stupid because I don't understand why he can't prioritize money - set aside money you KNOW you're going need to pay rent. He also bought himself this new car where his car note and insurance is ridiculous 🤦🏽‍♀️

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kimpower

Kimberly GomezВ ожидании первенца

You get a white board and split the bills in the middle if he can't agree with paying what you guys agreed on I would dump him.

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alexandriahill08

Alex Мама троих детей

oh I am sorry I hope it gets better for u. guys. i think it will😉😊

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marinarose

MarinaМама сына (1 год)

@alexandriahill08, he says he's been paying his grandma back the money she paid on our rent plus the phone bill and other shit. And he hasn't been working since his job has no work for him at the moment 🙄

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alexandriahill08

Alex Мама троих детей

seems like his mom is enabling him. and maybe.. but not saying,cuz idk. but maybe he has another problem he's blowing his $ on..?🤔 doesn't sound right. js

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chibiytino

SilvanaМама двоих (младенец)

Leave his ass period

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