Is it honestly that bad if I am 18 years old. Have my shit together. Working. With my baby daddy. Happy. And want another kid? Everyone is always talking shit and putting me down about even having my first. How young I am and I should wait. I'm not like most 18 year olds. I basically took care of myself growing up and all I ever wanted was a family. I have it and me and my fiancé want to expand our family. Is it seriously that freaking bad? This is really getting to the point where I just want to freak on people. It's at my job. Everywhere I go. Don't know how much longer I can continue being nice to people.
@fasciamom yeah unfortunately it's just text way it is and honestly I don't believe it's will change the same as racisim...
People all the time blah blah and of yeah all equal and all the same ..but no still gonna be haters😶
@queen_bee well I was hardworking and almost got master degree,and now my life in motherhood and being stay home mom and I should tell you is the best job I ever got! My boss- baby always happy to see me lol
Thank you for nice word's 🌹
@momboo, that's insane. They should be so proud of you for getting that position! But you are right, people have no filter. They are all fake and just want to be better than everyone else. Sounds like you have done an amazing job with your life!
@fasciamom I have absolutely the same ,we married at 22 both and it's always struggle people's don't understand but so easy to judge...
It's not all about marriage is was struggling from my 18 I was trying to be top manager and it's was my dream in 21 years old I made it happen and was product manager at one big company ,but still when I was giving direction how to do stuff for people who's older me they had a very nasty face and behind my back talking how da heck she's working here she's just child she's probably sleep with boss...
People don't have no filter 😑
That is good they supported you. My mom supports us, but it is everyone we don't know or other family that talk crap. I just feel like punching them in the face tbh. Wish I could. @mami1234,
@queen_bee 18 your an adult anyways so it shouldn't matter . And I dated 24 year old at 18 and my family supported that because he took care of me. He was a navy man.
@twinmomma2b, I'm 18 and with someone 10 years older. But he treats me right and loves me. Age is just a number 🙄 and people always give us looks and put their 2 cents in when they hear our age difference. He looks a lot younger though. He looks like he is 22. Yes it is extremely sad. It is a habit nowadays just to talk shit about everyone that walks by you. Everyone just judges and criticizes everything you do and say.
I'm 22 also@fasciamom and Lord knows I've had people look at me like I've committed the worst crime when I walk in somewhere with my twins and they ask how old I am like that really matters. I got the same looks when people found out I was dating a 25yr old when I was 17 and married to him at 20. It's mainly older people who have nothing better to do in their lives than to judge others. It's so sad honestly that they aren't happy in their lives they have to make others feel bad about every little thing.
Lol yeah, I only have one right now. We are talking about a second. @leelove1997,
It's sad how people treat each other though! @fasciamom, at least you are happy ya know? Like that is what people should care about. Happiness. But no they all just hate. But you are absolutely correct.
@queen_bee, I'm 22, but look about 16. I'm married to the love of my life and I get horrible looks from the people who don't know me. Obviously 22 is still young but because I look much younger, people can be quite mean.
Then I find some shady way to flash em the rock on my finger and they get the hint my life is probably made lol. It's YOUR life, if you need to tell people to fuck off, then go right ahead. Chances are, your life is way better than theirs ever was, and they're really just bitter. People hate other happy people, ESPECIALLY when they're younger.
You are completely right @twinmomma2b, it's just so frustrating at work. My last name is hubbell. So this guy at work mentioned the telescope. My boss said she probably doesn't even know what that is. I said yes I do. And she was asking me if I know who invented it and because I couldn't remember the guys name she laughed. Like are you serious?? People are really making me feel like shit. All I want to do is be home with my baby girl. I have anxiety and I'm just letting it all get to me.
I bet. Being a mom is a wonderful experience. I wouldn't give it up for anything. I am working so hard rn for my diploma. And I'm not giving up until I get it. @momboo, lol your baby is probably so happy being with you all the time.