I'm so thankful. Because I do have a good life. I don't always feel the greatest, but I'm try to remember where I came from. You see, I don't have to work, because I don't need to. My husband makes enough to support a family of 5. However if I wanted to work (mostly to keep my sanity), I also know my husband would be supportive. But let me tell you for those who are struggling, when we first got married we were living off of nothing. Enough just for food and I had to consolidate all my debt because my ex husband used my credit and left me with a mess! When I got married to Jon 2 years later, he owed the IRS so much money we had to pay so much back. Sometimes we would go digging for change in our car to get gas money. My mom would help out with what she can. And sometimes I wouldn't eat so that I could have enough food to feed my husband and daughter at the time. I just would tell my husband I wasn't hungry or I ate already. I just didn't want him to know. Yes, first couple of years was hell at times! But as time passed things started to come together, all our debt was paid, and my credit restored! My husband got his dream job and favored by the people at his work. He got into special operations in Law Enforcement which is hard to get into and continues to strive to do his best. And working to becoming a Sargent. I sacrificed by putting things to the side. That way he can pursue his career and I continue to encourage him to complete his education as he is finishing up His bachelors in Criminal justice. I have learned that when I help him succeed, it benefits us all! And it has and its paid off! And soon I'll be finishing up school myself. So those of you ladies who are struggling, just know your time will come. Just don't give up on your dream, it will come. Yes, how it happens will be very different from my story, but it will happen if you don't give up. Be patient with yourself. Remember things don't happen overnight. One day at a time, one step at a time. 😊