Every time I bring up money with my SO he gets crazy, I just don't understand. But he is the reason we have no money and…
Every time I bring up money with my SO he gets crazy, I just don't understand. But he is the reason we have no money and it's so frustrating. I try to talk to him about way we can save and it just blows up in my face every time. I start off being so nice and calm because I know he is immediately going to get his defenses up. And then he doesn't listen, denies, and accuses me of things that are such bullshit that I cannot help myself. I just wind up exploding. I can't even use the word frustrating enough.
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Does that happen all the time or just with money?
Elle·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (18 нед.)
@beebaby, we don't argue often, but when we do it's like this. He literally thinks he does nothing wrong. Drives me crazy
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Is he the only one working
Elle·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (18 нед.)
@beebaby, Yea I stay at home with our almost-2 year old! But if it's going to be like this I honestly would rather work because then I could try to save up since he isn't capable of it and I can't even talk to him about it :/
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Yeah. That isnt fair and probably why he acts like that. I bet he wouldnt appreciate that daycare bill
Elle·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (18 нед.)
@beebaby, lol right! And then I would get blamed for that 🙄 I can't win!