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Ruby Weber
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Мама четверых детей

Ladies I need to vent so for the past few days my daughter and I have not been getting along. She has been staying with…

Ladies I need to vent so for the past few days my daughter and I have not been getting along. She has been staying with me cause she also sometimes goes to her dad or grandparents, but lately she has been so disrespectful towards me and saying she doesn't want to live with me she doesn't like to share a room and how she doesn't like that she doesn't have her own room and privacy and I'm sorry but she needs to learn to be humble her dad also said that. She had her own room at her dads and grandparents house but they also let her do whatever she wants and they give her whatever she wants and I'm not like that. Today she told me she can't live like this cause she is independent and I told her you know when your 18 you could do whatever you want but your only 14 years old and staying with me and I also told her I can't believe your my daughter talking very disrespectful to me. Last night I punished her because I told her to be home by 6pm and she didn't get home till 11:30pm and so I called her and yelled at her and she told me don't come at me like that mom all rude if you want respect you also have to show me respect and I told her I don't owe you anything while your staying with me you go by my rules. I talked to her dad today and he said it's the way that I talk to her hays why she acts like that and I'm sorry but no I'm not going to let her get her way or tell me what time she is going to be home because that's what she was doing with her grandparents so now she is thinking she could do it here. Sorry I just needed to vent. I feel like I'm failing

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blessed_mommy6

Ruby WeberМама четверых детей

@miniwolfe, thank you I do have to be the bad one and be the disciplinary one. Today she came home right after school and she was good so we will see how the weekend and this whole next weeks goes and from here on out.

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del_1520639380_miniwolfe

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After reading this post it reminded me how I'm not looking forward to my girls turning 14. They are full of attitude now I can't imagine at that age.

I'm sorry for the way she treats u. And u have every right to put ur foot down. Sounds like u have to be the disciplinary

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blessed_mommy6

Ruby WeberМама четверых детей

Thanks ladies. I'm just having a hard time cause some of the things she said still hurts.

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kueen

KМама троих детей

@blessed_mommy6 the same thing is going on with me and my two sons they made me physically sick and also they go to there dads on weekend I been so sad lately I am here with you !!!!

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vb916

Valarie Мама дочки-младенца

It's the age. My cousin is going through the same thing and she has two teenage daughters (and another girl on the way). Hang in there and don't be so hard on yourself. Just remember what you were like at that age. I do and I'm mentally preparing myself lol

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annabellasmom

Monica GilbertМама дочки (1 год)

Hang I there momma ♡ I don't know what your going through but I can imagine it's rough! I hope things get better!

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