The worst day ever when you get home and the truth comes out your husband start saying what he really thinks about you wishing I had never met him and wishing I could get out of here literally don’t want to be him anymore tired of bs
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Might as well be a single mom if I’m going to be the only one working
He doesn’t like to get out of his comfort zone because he doesn’t want to look for a stable real job not even now that he knows we’re having a baby
Yeah we did I met him my junior year and he is 5 years older than me but sometimes it seems like I’m dating a kindergartner
I know how you feel. I left a tumultuous relationship after 8 years on and off. He was emotionally and mentally abusive. Then oh another dude got married without me knowing
@jocelynflores7396, exactly. And did y'all meet young? Like high school lovers kind of thing? Sometimes boys just need space to grow up. But you can't stick around til the growing up is done it's gotta be going on now before baby. It sounds like he needs to live and do his thing. Or that manhood and fatherhood is becoming very apparent to him and he's scared so lashing out. But do what's best for baby
Yeah I never beg I let him know and I told him that if his priorities are other people then I told him to drive me to my moms tomorrow and he won’t ever have to know about me ever in his life again
@shinanigans, yeah that’s what I told him and my kid doesn’t know him yet his not born yet so I want to do what’s best now and not for him to grow up seeing us fight all the time
It's very early in your pregnancy your priorities are changing and you and baby come first. If he wants to leave don't ever beg
@jocelynflores7396, I'm really sorry. Wow that must be awful. It really sounds like you need to remove yourself from this as hard as it is, you need to know you're more than worthy and this battered relationship doesn't define you. It's just a learning experience for when you do find someone you never thought you would. And do this for the sake of your child as well. Don't want children to hate being in a relationship or not know how to love their partner fully.
@shinanigans, thank you I been fighting almost 4 years for this relationship and I honestly feel like he doesn’t get the fact that we are a family now he was saying that he has to look out for his sister because that’s his family and honestly I feel like me and my baby don’t have a place here we live with his sister and he’s always telling all this and that I’m histerical that he doesn’t have to keep up with my bs and some shit like that and I just said that if he wanted me for a one night stand he should of told me this from the start so I wouldn’t have fallen for him and not 4 years later
Idk what's going on there, why he's had a sudden change of heart or the whole dynamic of both parties. However judging from what you said only, I would say, if possible if worth it, fight for your relationship. Otherwise, nothing wrong with seeing your self worth and doing what's best for you. You're early in your pregnancy so it's important to esp
Now not stress. And bringing baby into stressful environment in or out of womb isn't ideal. When you become the best version of yourself, your baby will sense that too and know what a good relationship is.
Idk he just started saying oh you Think I don’t care about you if I didn’t I wouldn’t be taking bs from a hypocrite like you and hella shit like that
GENDER POST! ??????
Alright mommas for everyone whose going to be finding out gender sometime in November or later..lets get a post going and keep each other updated. And for everyone who has already found out post below what you thought you were going to have and what you are actually having! ?
I find it pretty hilarious how people who have shown their true colors on social media snake away, delete the posts that outed them and come back on social media like nothing happened. Why do that, you outed yourself, so stay out. We still see you boo boo...
these women wishing death on babies, is seriously pissing me off!! I had a stillborn at 31 weeks, it's not something you wish on someone, or a baby who hasnt got to experience life! if you wish that I hope you rot in hell!!👌🏻 this is not how someone wants to take their baby home, I had to take my first home in an urn, wishing death on a baby or person period is sick, how would you feel if someone said that to you? you wouldn't like it! and in my opinion if you're gonna wish death you dont deserve...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
some of the stuff I see on here, like rooms, beds, houses, etc is disgusting! you claim you're a sahm and your husband works hard, then help him out and let him come home to a clean house, bed, sheets, etc🤷🏻♀️
I feel sad I want to cry because I really fell in love with him but I guess it was a game for him or he just stopped caring over all and I guess it’s what’s best for me and my baby