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Elle
Elle
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (18 нед.)

I'm still "small" and this is my second pregnancy! And I'm PROUD of it... let me tell you why…

I'm still "small" and this is my second pregnancy! And I'm PROUD of it... let me tell you why ladies. For all of you who have been made to feel bad about having a small bump, which I definitely have and the same people are saying the same things this pregnancy. Have you guys ever noticed that the women with the smallest bumps are "fitness" women or fashion models? Women who are EXTREMELY fit? I challenge you to look it up on google, type in "smallest pregnancy bump" and they are all women who are athletes or have athletic bodies. This is because (most of the time) it has nothing to do with the size of your baby. I repeat, you are NOT going to have a small baby. It has to do with how your ligaments stretch and how tight your ab muscles and the muscles in your stomach are! The tighter your muscles are, the harder it is for them to stretch out. That is why second and third and fourth pregnancies you get bigger and bigger, because your muscles have already stretched out before so it is easier for them to stretch the next time/s. Do women get made fun of for having a fit/ tight body when they are not pregnant? No. So why is it acceptable to make fun of them or make them feel bad about their bodies when they are pregnant? Being small during pregnancy just means that you will most likely bounce back faster after birth! So stop letting people bring you down for your "small" bumps ladies!! Be proud of it! 💜💜💜🤰

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peoplecallmesatan

Courtney Lochamy 🌙

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Thank you so much for this!!!! I get so tired of being pregnancy shamed for being small

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aboutellesbabes

Elle

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (18 нед.)

@courtneyraelochamy, your belly is perfect! And the sweet baby it's holding will be even more perfect :)

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mia.forte1997

Mommaa Miiaa

@courtneyraelochamy, same with me. People ask me are you sure you're pregnant. Yes, I'm positive got my ultrasound and everything.

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mia.forte1997

Mommaa Miiaa

@aboutellesbabes, thanks!! I really needed to hear this! I have been shamed for my size at 22 weeks. Because I'm not as big. And my boyfriend keeps comparing me to his friend that's pregnant. Because her body is bigger than mine that means that there's something wrong. I went to the doctor everything is fine so it just sucks that people think pregnancy is a one size fits all.

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peoplecallmesatan

Courtney Lochamy 🌙

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@aboutellesbabes, thank you ❤️❤️❤️ @mia.forte1997, and right? No just my positive pregnancy tests. Ultrasounds and doctor are lying. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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mia.forte1997

Mommaa Miiaa

@courtneyraelochamy, exactly!! I know I'm healthy and so is my child so just because the girl down the street has a bigger bump than me that does not make me any less pregnant! That's sooo annoying!

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mia.forte1997

Mommaa Miiaa

@courtneyraelochamy, the same thing happened when I took the first pregnancy test. I got a faint positive because it was really early. And my boyfriend was like that's a negative because it's not a dark line. Really dude?? 🤦‍♀️

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