Before i got pregnant with my husband' baby he told me that he wasnt ready for a baby, said it will ruin his life, said that it seems that im killing him by having his baby. Now I fear he might harm me and my pregnancy
@mamita197798, and my husband and I use protection. Shoot I even have an iud. We would go on and off using condoms with my iud and it didn't help! If he didn't want to use protection then he should expect to have a child
@mamita197798, yes ma'am! I've been practicing for a year and I'm in love with the religion but it's because I do follow my husband, but I'm no fool. In the Quran it say that women are 3x's more important
@msjt07, then they aren't practicing correctly because the woman actually has more control and more of a say. As long as they are both respectful in the marriage then it should work out. Also I put my foot down with my husband. I don't play that.
Wow if you feel like he might you should go somewhere family or friends I know Muslim men do believe very strongly in there point of view does he know your pregnant
a lot of men feel that way in the beginning. my baby daddy didnt want to have a kid either because he felt not ready, but once they embrace reality, a lot of men do come around. if you feel in danger with the baby, leave until he gets his head wrapped around it.