Why Did He Steal Our Baby Name?

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So my bf and I are expecting our first child in Feb..we had talked about having kids in the past and had names we liked and so on. Well anyways this guy, who I won't call a friend because he's more of a pest, ended up knocking up some stripper, which he already has 3 kids from 3 different people so I almost feel bad for her. This dude has small man syndrome for sure and literally goes out of his way to copy my bf...his haircut, his clothes even down to his extracurricular activities. He's always just showing up at our house and sits down and tries to talk when we are clearly not interested but he can't take a hint. Well miraculously and ironically they find out they are having a boy and STEAL the only name we had picked out for that gender, stating he already told us he was using that name before...what before we even got pregnant?! oddly after WE told you guys thats the name we wanted?! fuckin garbage!

Cheyanne Lehman · Answer

@rach.robinson riiighhht probably he even asked my bf to be his best man and he didn't say anything and dude just assumed he would and started talking to him about rentals and stuff...he's like a fuckin leech

Joni · Answer

Sounds like you need to stop hinting you dont want him around and you should just come out with it.. That way he and the baby and the stripper are no longer in your life that way the baby is just another kid that shares the name.. 
He sounds very much like a pest sorry you gotta deal with that.. Burn the bridge and do it quick.

Cheyanne Lehman · Answer

@roche.mommy6435 oh no fersure I was only cordial because it was more of an issue for my bf being annoyed...now I'm fed up I told him off and told him to stay away from our bar (bf owns and is a chef) and our life...he literally doesn't have friends so he just clings to anyone

Baylee · Answer

@clehman1525, that sounds really frustrating. If you don't care much for them then quit associating with em. He sounds weird to begin with...

Cheyanne Lehman · Answer

@roche.mommy6435 no that's the thing we planned all this shit out when wed get pregnant, names, nursery themes everything! Well she got knocked up a month before we got pregnant, randomly, and ironically chooses the only name we've mentioned ....in still gonna use the name but this just makes me feel bitter

. · Answer

Even if she is further along and used the name first I'm sure they will still use it to if he copy's her bf with everything

Baylee · Answer

I'd still use the name. Make him find something else. Are you farther along than her?

kammy · Answer

Annoying 😩 but that's why most ppl hide names until baby is born

Why Did He Steal Our Baby Name?

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