It really urks me when you have an older child who throws a tantrum and people look at you like your doing something wrong when you have to lay down the law to your child . all i did was pick her up and put her in timeout. Smh. When i was a kid i was scared to throw tantrums. I would get a but whooping. But even raising your voice at your kid nowadays, people look at you like your doing something wrong. Lolll