Hey to all moms I have a question my daughter is a year old and her dad has never seen her in person and he had a chance to come see her and he gave me a excuse as to y he couldn't travel to see her for her brithday party.... and is their anything I can do to try and get him to see his daughter or should I file for child support
@sbarteni, then I wouldn't even bother if I were you mama, he obviously doesn't even care about her
@kailey.gallentine I haven't set up the child support and he hasn't even seen her in person yet and she is almost 13 months
@sbarteni, I wouldn't. Either sit down or write out the rules. He can come on a set day and a set time and if he wants to come he needs to let you know the day before, if he's not there 15 after without letting you know, leave. Give him two-three chances, and after that, he's done. Every time he comes he has to bring child essentials (diapers, wipes, formula, clothes, whatever applies to the situation) and child support is to be paid in full. That's just what I found worked best for us.
@kailey.gallentine just wondering if I should ask if he wants to really be in her life so I don't waste my time trying to get him to see his kid?
@sbarteni, exactly💜 do what's best for your little family but remember to protect her heart ❤️
@kailey.gallentine yea that's what I should cus I don't want her hurt by him the way I was
@sbarteni, not sure about Oregon laws but in California being on the birth certificate only establishes paternity, it doesn't give any parental rights. It's just establishes paternity so he can file for visitation/custody, etc.
in my personal experience once he disappointed my daughter and made excuses for not coming around I cut off visitation. I refuse to allow him to be in and out at the expense of my daughters heart and innocence. No way no how lol
@kailey.gallentine yea should I message him and give him one last chance and he's not on the brith certificate
File and call it a day! If he gave a shit he'd be there. It will do more damage to her if he's there half ass rather than not at all. Just be careful of her heart. Not every daughter needs their bio dad 💜
@noahs.mommy yea I just wish my daughter dosent have to go through this at a young age but at least she dosent know him so it won't be hard.....just not sure what to do about that
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@sbarteni he just doesn't want to be a dad it sounds like. My sons dad acts like that. Its horrible. Unfortunately we can't make them be in their lives or even want to be..
@noahs.mommy I'd like him to be apart of his daughter life but he's just giving me excuses after excuses as to y he hasn't seen her and he also only contact me when he feels like it
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Nothing. You could go to court and get visitations but he doesn't HAVE to go to the visit. I'd see if maybe he'll sign his rights over to you or just try and get child support though again he doesn't have to pay but at the same time he does.
Dad's FB Video!! Did anyone see that video a dad posted on his daughters FB page? He saw a post she made where she bashed her parents and cursed them, called them lazy and told them they should pay her for stuff she did around the house... So he called her out on it and put the video on her page!! Sorry if I missed a post already about this already, but I just saw the video and IT WAS AWESOME!!! Hahahhaa!
so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he post pictures and stuff about her he puts my daughter i am honestly double thinking this if I should move or not im 22 and 6 months pregnant!?????
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
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@kailey.gallentine yea that's probable teue
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