Anyone else have problems having sex after having their kids? My first I didn't but my most recent I do and she's almost 9 months!
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@logansjay, I've looked it up. You gotta see a pelvic therapist! I found one near me but I can't get in for 3 months!
@alashure001, nope it's not in your head lmao there's a fucking wall there. Or extra skin or something. Whatever you want to call it. It bothers me so much I want to see a specialist but I'm not sure who I would see.
Ugh ladies there's gotta be a way for us out of this and I'm gonna figure how to make us all better!
@logansjay, same here! It's literally like there's a wall there. I told my doctor and he said it's all in my head 😂😂 um no!
@mommagi, yes! That's exactly why I just give in and try to do it once a week lol
I literally just had this convo with my so. It's like all my insides didn't return to their originally place and it's all weird now. Like nothing is aligned anymore like yeah um that wall didn't use to be there please stop hitting it it feels wrong. It's been 10mos since I've given birth and we rarely have sex. Not to mention I feel things got wrecked and I'm not tight anymore and keagels don't work anymore
Yupp , literally have only done it5 times since I gave birth & that's only because he complains from time to time so I just do it
@meetthevalentines2017, OMG same here girl! My boyfriend is very supportive BUT always talk about how our sex life has changed and it sucks and he hopes I get better soon and it just makes it worse! Hahaha "not my fault you put 2 kids in my bro"😂😂😂
@mamalambs, exactky! I only do it to please him lol but it's just not fun and puts a damper on our relationship but yes I'll definitely let you know!
@alashure001, that's a good idea! I need to do that too. Girl same it's like I don't want sex because then the rest of the night I'm in pain. That's not fun. Let us know if you find a solution!
@alashure001 same and my husband gets upset that I don't want to but doesn't understand how uncomfortable it is for me. Before I got pregnant the first time we literally had sex everyyyday and now he s mad "I've changed" not my fault you put 2 babies in me bro.
Ugh yea I've read so much and am thinking of going to a pelvic therapist to see if that helps. I dread having sex because of it and it sucks
Yes! I am 22 months PP and sex is still so painful for me 🙁 we have to take it super slow and even then it hurts so bad! Idk whyyy
It just hurts. Like the walls of my vagina just can't take it anymore and I didn't even deliver vaginally
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
@alashure001, geez that's a long time but it'll be worth it hopefully