I have initiated sex with my husband twice, yesterday and today and his only response, "I'm not in the mood right now." He has always been in the mood, the last time he wasn't he was sexting another woman until I found out. I feel like he's not attracted to me anymore or that he's talking to another girl again. I just don't know what to do anymore.
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@robbyanne1 hunny I totally get that. Its a scary thing to deal with. I pray you figure all this out. Stay strong momma.
@shayla.galloway, I just don't want it to wreck our marriage. I'm trying so hard to forgive him and move past it.
@kelleycrew7362 I completely agree. @robbyanne1 if you afraid of the truth. What does that tell you about you relationship... I mean...if you can't trust eachother then why are you with him... That's why therapy can help with issues because it can help with issues that can wreck the whole relationship.
@robbyanne1, the truth will set you free. Why live in limbo it's better to know everything that's going on. You want to be on the same page with the person you're spending your life with. It's gunna be uncomfortable but you got this. Fear will stop you from living your truth, happiness and everything in between. Being brave doesn't mean not feeling fear but pushing through it. It could go either way but you deserve to know
@kelleycrew7362, finding the truth.
@shayla.galloway, I couldn't agree more! There's underlining issues, if you don't properly heal you can never move forward. Are you more afraid of him leaving or finding out the truth?
@robbyanne1 I get that but if you have those insucrities...sometimes therapy can help you guys resolve those issues
@shayla.galloway, I feel like my anxiety is just getting to me and I'm making scenarios up in my head, but with his past I don't even know anymore.
I think the therapy could be helpful. Its scary going in. But I think it will be best for both of you in the long haul.
@kelleycrew7362, I found out last time because her ex told me, now I have no way of knowing
@robbyanne1, wouldn't it be better to know? Why invest your all and not get the same in return life is to short to not be happy. You deserve the truth either way
@robbyanne1, you won't make things worst , maybe it will help .. I just hate the feeling and you shouldn't have too feel that way luv
@kelleycrew7362, I'm just scared that I'm in it and he's not.
@robbyanne1 support you and stay Strong Mom! God is your strength everyday!
@robbyanne1, therapy isn't a he said she said it's really helpful. It's a buffer to help explain your feelings. I think it's a great idea @sweetmami! Marriage is a lot of work and commutation
@robbyanne1 you are right thing.. He is wrong.. I hope you feel better soon. Just ignore him. Focus on yourself, and your kids. Be strong. No down!!!
@lovegod90, I told him how I was feeling and he got pissed at me
Oh no, did you tell him why? Please do not allow him bring you DOWN. Focus on your happy. Just pray for him.. @robbyanne1
@robbyanne1 so sorry... Are you married? Or in a relationship?
@sweetmami, no we haven't. I feel like if we go the whole I say things he'll just deny and make things worse
I know the feeling , have you try couples therapy ?
@robbyanne1, therapy won't wreck your marriage it brings everything to the light. Forgiving is a process that's why it's nice to have someone guide you through it.