Y'all, I'm so confused about my life. I don't wanna have him super early but omg I don't wanna go full term. My tiny frame can't push out an 8-10 lb baby out of my vagina with no epidural 😭
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
ok serious question, can I get high off the smell of weed... I'm freaking out my man smokes in the bathroom but it never aired out and I went to take a bath it still smelled heavily. I'm freaking out I don't wanna test positive when I haven't smoked it 😨😨😨😨😢
Breastfeeding moms: so I am planning on going on a 3 day vacation with my hubby & a bunch of friends to Catalina in May, (my baby won't be going with us) and I do not wanna be pumping and dumping every 2 hours out there.. so if I don't pump or breastfeed for 3-4 days, will my milk supply drop significantly? 😩😩 & I don't know how I'm gonna deal with the engorgement pain if I can't find time to pump out there.
So basically is my decision if I wanna have a c section or have her vaginal 😔 I don't wanna stressed about it but I don't know .....
Brianna🌸·
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@carathecoolcat, oh my goodness🙃
Cara·
@dalliesmama, yeah, but I shouldn't have. My doctor was a fucking idiot. I have a new one this time, obviously. I won't ever have a natural delivery again. She came out blue & not breathing, got stuck, broke her collar bone, had a shoulder dystocia. I hemorrhaged. A nurse literally jumped on my bed, straddled me & was pushing my stomach to try and get her out.
I'm an extremely tiny girl. My new doctor told me I am going to be a scheduled c-section. The doc who delivered me was pissed that I had her naturally. And my OB (the idiot) told me not even a week before I had her "I'm not going to let you have a 9 pound baby" well she was full of shit. Lol
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@carathecoolcat, did you go natural
Cara·
I'm 5'0 and was 100 pounds when I got pregnant with my daughter.
She was 9lbs 3oz.
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Yeah and I had stitches
Lisa Marie Littlepage ·
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Girl I push out an 8 lb 8 ounce baby with no meds the contraction is the worst part pushing feels amazing til the ring of fire hits
Brianna🌸·
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Double weight* not triple oh gosh
Brianna🌸·
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@ashleydunn, I'd rather go before then. I know he's worth the wait but if he's really gonna triple weight 😧
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@dalliesmama, my OB said as long as stomach measurement aren't more than 2 weeks behind then it was normal. I freaked out because there for awhile Kynzleigh was measuring 2 weeks behind. Ideally most babies should make it to 39 weeks , that's considered full term.
Brianna🌸·
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My stomach is measuring a week behind and then he's measuring a week early
Brianna🌸·
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@ashleydunn, I think it'd be best for me to go in a little early. I know baby will come when he's ready but I'm already terrified
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@dalliesmama, oh girl trust me those can be off. Either too much or too little. They told me my oldest wasn't going to be more than 7 pounds and she was 8 lbs . And no big deal of week ahead. My stomach measured 2 weeks ahead with my second and she was smaller than my first
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@dalliesmama, you're about my sisters size. She's that height and her baby came at 37 weeks on his own and was only 7 lbs 6 oz (the size of my second) and she didn't have any stitches but she did get an epidural. My mom however had all her kids no epidural and she was smaller than me but her biggest baby was only 7 pounds
Brianna🌸·
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And at 31 weeks for him to be 4lb11oz and a week ahead it terrified me to push him out
Brianna🌸·
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@ashleydunn, I'm 4'11 and ranged from 100-112 before pregnancy.😧
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I believe babys grow to what their mommies can handle... somewhat.
I had epidural but I was induced. My 1st came at 41 weeks at 8 lbs 3 oz (did have stitches though, my kids had big heads) my second came at 38 weeks on her own at 7 lbs 9 oz.
I have a small frame too. 5'2 98 pre baby