It sounds like he's running from something. In my opinion, commitment. No man would live under his parents roof unless he needs to. This must be hurtful and confusing for you. If I was in this situation, mind you I'm close to 40, I would tell him to go and give him space and give myself time to think about my options. If there is something else going on it will be brought out soon after.

Exactly we live perfectly fine we aren't in anyone else way we have our own space not sleeping on someone else's thing like we have our own thing

@dariannar, yeah. I understand. It's weird that he wants her on the weekends but won't live with you guys. 🙄 it's going to be your call on this one.

That's how I feel like I had that gut feeling and my family has done so much for us and I feel like he's being ungrateful but then when I mention that I know it a break up he denies it but then asks if he can take the baby on weekends and I say no because technically he's not on her birth certificate only me

@dariannar, then that's your answer momma. Why are you going to leave your family just to be with his if he can't compromise. It seems like this is a break up and he is just being too immature to say it. I'm sorry.

Plus his own family doesn't even like me and has never ever seen my daughter or have asked me how she's doing and she's almost 2

I don't want to move with him because he's going to be moving to his mothers house to sleep on a couch like I'm not going to go with him to be uncomfortable if we have a two bedroom apartment and don't have to be in other people's spaces

@dariannar, you have to talk to him. Something doesn't seem right. He is either hiding something from you and stringing you along or is giving you a choice to stay or move with him and not being direct. It would be different if it was for work or something of the like.

Because he doesn't like that we live in the apartment under my parents but where we live the apartment aren't cheap and they have given it to us for a decent price

@dariannar, why is he moving then if you guys aren't breaking up?

I'm very hurt by it because we've been together for 4 years we have a 1 year old and he says we not breaking up but he's moving ever far from us and it barley going to see us so it bothers me

Well, how do you feel about it?