How do you cope with being a single parent? The father of the child in my womb has pretty much…
How do you cope with being a single parent? The father of the child in my womb has pretty much vanished. Part of my wants to scream and just sabotage him by announcing it on Facebook. He never told anyone we were together let alone that I'm pregnant and now he has started tagging his ex on Facebook and not responding to my messages. He hasn't shown much interest in my pregnancy at all. But now I'm pretty sure it's over and I want to post on Facebook calling him out but I know that's probably not the right thing to do or worth it. I've considered messaging his mom and dad but I'm pretty sure I'm just mad and being petty but it hurts because now I'm alone.
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Just hit him with that child support 😅
Sarah·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@ashley1994 I've thought lomg and hard about doing that and exactly what I would say. But I got so mad when I saw him tagging his ex and it hurt so much I just blocked him so I wouldn't have to see it. Not to mention I haven't told my family I'm pregnant yet. Just my dad. And now I'm scared to because I'm scared they are going to look at me differently bit being pregnant and not in a relationship with the father.
Amanda·
Мама сына (8 лет)
The best thing you can do is show him that you don't physically need him. That he's a douche and you can do it on your own. Don't feel bad about it. It was hard but you'll pull through. And get that child support..... Babies are expensive
Amanda·
Мама сына (8 лет)
@maxx I was the same with my family. Scared what they would think with my first. Even tho I was grown. There morals just wasn't having it. But everything worked out with them and I bet it will with you too
Hayley·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (15 нед.)
honestly thats how i was. i just posted about the baby all the time then when people he knew asked just say he isnt ready for the baby but you got this
Sarah D. ·
В ожидании первенца
Do whatever you want that'll make you have closure. Personally, I think you should focus on being the best mom you can be. Let your family in on the excitement because they're your biggest supporters and don't even worry about him. He's obviously not worth being called daddy. Your baby deserves so much more than a dad who half asses his relationship with him/her. When the baby is born, have him pay child support too. It takes two to make a baby. If he doesn't wanna be a dad, he'll still have to help you support what's half his. And who knows, maybe he'll come to his senses later on in the pregnancy. Good luck and I'm here if you ever need to talk!
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- Girl I'm kinda in the same boat as you.. my child's father wanted me to get an abortion.. his parents don't know he's been with me, since we had a big breakup a year ago, we never told his family that we were having a baby. He disappears sometimes, overwhelmed. He'll ignore me which drives me mad! Like crazy b**** mad .. which I HATE. One call to his mom and she'll kick him out. The only thing drawing me back is the fact that I know he'll leave the state.
Whatever you do, just think about you and the baby first. I hope you figure it out