Being a new parent is not easy especially when I'm doing this alone. I have to hold my husband…

What type of insurance? Secondly if he is really saying that about his own child then that doesn't say much about him as a person. That is awful

@beebaby insurance is going to come from his new job. Plus I'm the only one who knows that he's fighting his PTSD that he's been hiding from the military. AND, he's been working every day since July 8th. He hasn't had a single day off. Plus he drives 3 hours to work and then works a 12 hour shift and then drives 3 hours back home. Plus I'm not working so it's really tight on money so that makes things really hard on us

Dont leave him alone with baby. No telling how he would handle stress with her

@kaytibug2009, first of all the only thing I hear are excuses your making for that poor choice of a husband based on your response about working and PTSD. Who gives a fuck about how much pain he's in, no father should ever consider adoption especially if it's over him not "feeling well" from his accident. My husband is a retired army veteran and I know the struggles of being an army wife and dealing with his PTSD but NEVER has he ever mentioned giving out children up for adoption because the baby is crying. You know what all babies do CRY & BE FUSSY! No real military man would ever want to get rid of a family member because of a little crying. No values instilled in him I guess, I assume he was a paper pusher and can't handle the stress. Find you a real husband. This just infuriates me. You can block or report me I don't care but it's the truth.

Wow.Can you say Backer Act your husband or the guy your with*What man fuckin ever says Adoption the baby your grew in your womb and nurished is here now! He should've used a Condom if he didn't want children or sorry cut his balls off He doesn't deserve you or this baby.! No matter what illness he has this IS NOT normal for a parent to say this..You Should pack your things and go with your child.I'm a professional pet groomer but..i did go to school For Private Investigations:(so i can read people) #1 People treat you how you allow them#2 he is Unstable #3 love yourself enough to leave him ! Sorry i am blunt but this is disturbing.I had my 1st son at 16 it never came out of my mouth or his fathers.I am 38 yrs old no Have no regrets having any of my children! They are my motivation to better myself.He needs serious help

Thank you everyone for showing me why I love my husband. Also for showing me that there is a reason he and I found each other. Especially since his tubes have been tied for 5 years now and I wasn't supposed to be able to have children, yet we had our daughter. During the hardest time in our lives... I didn't want her. At times I question if it's right for me to keep her. My husband and I both came from abusive families, we both have PTSD (his is due to the Military, mine due to all the abuse from family), and we both have no patience for things that we cannot control or do not have order. Yet for some reason, we have argued and fought for each other and even at times with each other just to make us a stronger family. I now know what I need to do and how to keep my family happy and together. I'm not going to be a weak individual and give up on someone I love. Especially when I've had the same thoughts. So thank you everyone for showing me that I'm stronger than this. Because my lack of support on how to fix things, instead of running like a scared little girl, has opened my eyes to a solution.