giving birth is the hard part, everything after isn't bad in fact you don't hardly notice any of it, I was so scared I was gonna tear it was like my biggest fear and when it happened I had no idea and I didn't feel the stitches either, I literally had no feeling down there for weeks

@celestellaa you may be but yes you will be fine and @theinkedmommy is right your maternal instincts will kick in right away!

@skyy12221, I don't know. I guess since this is my first time ever giving birth I'm just nervous and didn't know certain things. I'm sure I'm just overthinking everything and I will be fine.

@celestellaa, Your maternal instincts will kick in as soon as your baby is born. I know it sounds crazy, and I didn't believe it, but as soon as I held my daughter I just knew what to do and felt that everything was gonna be ok.

@theinkedmommy, im sure! Thank you. I guess I don't know what to expect even though everyone is telling me what happens after. It's crazy to think I'm going to give birth and be mom sometimes. I freak out a bit but I know I'll be fine.

I heard that if you breastfeed, you won't get your period.

Its normal to feel nervous but everything will be ok. What about birth other than tearing are you nervous about? You can do legals, perineal massages, and research mother led pushing that'll help you avoid tearing/episiotomy. I didn't tear with my first or second baby. Why are you nervous about the bleeding and postpartum? I'm sure you'll do fine mama 😊

@celestellaa, All of that will melt away when they put that baby in your arms. 💗