Something I shared on Facebook:
It's so very sad that people see an attached child as "spoiled." We carry our children in our womb for months, then they come into this unfamiliar world, and they depend on their mother/parents for all their needs. It's not black and white. You don't just feed and change your child, then leave them to self soothe. They need their parents for comfort, warmth, and nurturing. People wonder why children have anxiety and abandonment issues, you can't get angry with a infant for crying/being fussy, it is their only form of communication. Children are very complex. So think about that before you tell a mother their child is spoiled, needy, or whatever other backhanded comment you conjure up. Children need love, comfort, and warmth. Think before you speak 😊
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Yeah I hate when people say that... my bf even said that the other day... I was like she is not spoiled.... When she cry it's for a reason she is wet or hungry or tiered... otherwise she is a happy baby...
@demytrismommy Same. Kids have melt downs as well, they're human. We as adults get frustrated, impatient, exhausted and sometimes we don't always contain it... So why do people expect children to be able to hold their composure? Makes zero sense.
As a mother of a child with special needs I am absolutely disgusted by the woman on here who suspiciously began posting pictures of her child recently...seemed too showy like he was on display.
Confirmed stolen. She’s not the mother.
Have you ever went...
Somewhere public and realize that your parenting and your children aren't as "bad" as you thought??
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
when you feel like a bad mother before your child is even born because your friend is judging u
I found myself very annoyed today. There was a big debate on facebook on who comes first in a mans life. Wife, Daughter, Mom, And Bm... I told people my fiance comes first because he's the father of both of my children, and we're one, a union. Our children's needs are met by both of us financially and emotionally plus he consults me when it comes to his daughter because she talks to me and more open.. What I lack, he brings to the table and same with him. He's more serious and I'm the one to get...
Its like a common statement now, I can't help but roll my eyes when I hear it... People are genuinely ignorant. @embracemthrhd2 @mama_tj