#momlifechats Moms, Welcome to #momlifechats! We’re so excited to welcome Infant & Child Sleep Consultant Hailee Schollaardt (@nurturingsleepsolutions). Hailee has been a Certified Sleep Consultant for 3.5 years. She has 3 kids aged 4.5 years, 2.5 years and 6 months and knows all too well the difficulties of a non-sleeping baby. “My first baby was 11 months old before he slept his first 2 hour stretch (It was a wednesday) and since then I became obsessed with learning about sleep!” Hailee classifies herself as more of a gentle sleep coach and encourages parents to do what works best for their own family. “Always advocate for your family and your baby! After all, you know them best!” She has worked with many families and loves providing tools to help improve sleep for every family she meets. Healthy Sleep equals Happy Families! Hailee’s top 3 sleep tips: 1.) Create a baby cave! The body is cued by light levels and so darkness in the room environment is so important. We want that room to be pitch black if we can. This helps newborns feel at home (in the womb) and it help’s older babies produce sleep hormones. 2.) Use white noise. This is my “must have” in any sleep space. It helps newborns feel at home because it sounds like the womb and it helps older babies to cycle through sleep cycles. Use a constant sound such as static, heavy rainfall or a vacuum. Make sure it does not turn off after a certain interval as we want it to be playing the whole time to help those sleep cycles! 3.) Build strong routines. This is not the same as a schedule. A routine is just the steps you do before putting your baby down to sleep. Each step in that routine triggers the brain to release sleep hormones. Essentially, it acts as your baby’s clock telling the body what time it is… sleep time! Inconsistent sleep routines can lead to inconsistent sleep! Please ask @nurturingsleepsolutions anything by tagging her in the comments below. And a big thanks to @nurturingsleepsolutions for participating in this chat! Hailee welcomes you to follow her Facebook Page Nurturing Sleep Solutions for more live Q&A’s and helpful Facebook Live sleep tips! Let’s get chatting! 🍁mom.life_usa🍂
Babygirl knocked out sleep
shut the door? does anyone shut their child's door while they sleep? (if they sleep in their own room)
Co sleeping...yay or nay? Lately Molly hasn't want to sleep in her crib and sleep with us. Which is fine but we do want her to sleep in her crib
Sara-Louise·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
It's perfectly normal as the others have said they don't know the difference between night & day just yet. But you can start to behave differently during the day & night so they start to. I keep things light, bright & noisy as usual during the day. Lots of chatter, hoovering etc. Even during nap time. Don't tip toe around him. During the night, keep things as quiet as possible. I never talk unless I'm singing a lullaby or saying goodnight. Used the landing light or street light when feeding etc. Eventually they'll start to wake more during the day & sleep longer at night but for now it's eat, sleep, change, repeat 24/7 for a while lol.
becky·
Мама сына-младенца
Liam did the same soon will past has he will wake up more in the daytime soon then sleep better at night xx
Sarah King·
Мама сына-младенца
@mum2sky I just sleep in the day when he sleeps.
Alisha Pomells ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@sarahthe oooo then yes please 😂 I'd take the offer even if it's for an hour it'll help x
Sarah King·
Мама сына-младенца
@mum2sky i think they meant so i could sleep
Alisha Pomells ·
Мама дочки-младенца
@sarahthe hopefully not but who knows. It's up to you but your parents taking him won't necessarily change the routine he will grow out of it when hes ready x
Sarah King·
Мама сына-младенца
@mum2sky hopefully it wont take 2 months. Like my parents have offered to have him but hes still so little x
Olivia·
Мама сына-младенца
Definitely not hun, babies are constant xx
Sarah King·
Мама сына-младенца
@olivia161 hopefully they dont lie when they say its a full time job zzz x
Alisha Pomells ·
Мама дочки-младенца
My daughter did this for 2 months. I just made sure as soon as it was light i opened the windows so she knew it was day time and night time I closed them. At that age they don't understand night and day but it'll go soon hun like Olivia said you just have to ride it out unfortunately x
Olivia·
Мама сына-младенца
It is but I think we just have to ride it out 😴 xx
Sarah King·
Мама сына-младенца
@olivia161 it exhausting last night i had a whole half an hour then was awake again at 4 x
Olivia·
Мама сына-младенца
My son is like that sometimes they are still learning routines xx