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greeeeeeeat so my dad told me today my grandma wants to be here for when I deliver like in my room. ( she wants to get…

greeeeeeeat so my dad told me today my grandma wants to be here for when I deliver like in my room.

( she wants to get here before my due date )

Since, when do my parents make the decisions on who is & isn't going to be in my room?! seriously I AM SO DONE. I don't even want my mom , sister OR dad in my room. I just want my husband & best friend. IDC if anyone thinks that's selfish. I just want everything to run SMOOTH. I want my room to be calm & positive. I want a good environment & with all of them in there it won't be.

1. having my dad in the room is just weird for me. It may not be weird for others but for me it is.

2. my mom freaks out for everything & she's over dramatic. I can just see CHAOS happening & I can see myself yelling at her kicking her out of the room + she's gonna want to take pictures of EVERYTHING & I don't want that. Seriously.

ALSO , this might be SELFISH & again IDC. but I want NO ONE posting pictures or anything before I do! I want to be able to enjoy my moment w. my husband before I get attacked w. messages , calls + text from everyone & I don't want anyone visiting me until a day AFTER he's born. I want to enjoy my time. BUUUUUT knowing how my mom is that WON'T happen. UGH.

Sorry for the long rant. 🤦🏼‍♀️💆🏼

Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Is it wrong for me not to want my boyfriends mom in the room when I deliver my son?

I lost my appetite everything I go to eat I don't want it just not appetizing to me what do I do 😫

I need to ask you guys something because I want to make sure I'm not crazy....

I need to ask you guys something because I want to make sure I'm not crazy.... I'm having my first child and I told my fiancé that I want him and my mom who's my best friend in the room with me when I deliver. My fiancé basically thinks it's childish for me to want my mom there for her first grandchild's birth.... he said he's never known anyone to have their parents in the room, he thinks it should just be him and I. But I've never known anyone to NOT want their mom there. Am I wrong for wanting my mom there? She's the only one who will understand what I'm going through or know what to do to help me, she's always been there for me. I need answers / opinions please. I'm so frustrated.