The passed few days have been rough with my mother. And she was saying some more stuff to me that is rather not get into right now. But my boyfriend called a realtor today and told her that we are looking to get a house together and with our combined income we would be able to get a 3 to 4 bedroom house. There are so many options. But I think what changed his mind about getting an apartment was the fact that I had told him that if I have to get rid of my dog he should get rid of his cat. And he said I could just get him declawed and I then asked him if he was willing to do that then he didn't say anything but then shocked me when he called the realtor. Things are starting to look up after the stress I've been under during this last week. I'm ready to start this new chapter in my life with my SO and my son and baby number 2 along with my fur babies.